Shocking to you probably, but the ADRs don't make a difference to me too much. I would rather eat a churro or a mickey bar than sit down and eat at a restaurant. I’m pretty cheap, so combination of too much money and wastes too much time. Though, my DS wanted Chef Mickeys this trip because he remembered it from our last trips. Two months out and I could not get a breakfast for any of our 6 days. I wasn't too upset because it is so darn expensive, I offered to take him to a Shoneys breakfast buffet instead.

I did manage to get a Crystal Palace breakfast though and he about made himself sick trying to get our $$s worth. lol I guess I have taught him to be cheap like me.
Not shocking at all!
#1 - Eating sit down meals at Disney every day is expensive!
We did it when they first came out with the dining plans and that was relatively cheap compared to now.
I've made exactly one ADR for our November food and wine trip. At 'Ohana because we like it and have great memories of when the kids were younger and we kinda want to relive some of that with the grandbabies. We will pay for 3 adults because the babies are under 3, so this will be the one time it will be almost reasonable. Still that's $200 once you add tax and tip and if anyone wants a cocktail.
I've done Chef Mickey 5-6 times over 30 years - liked it but not willing to fight for adr's. People used to rave over the parmesan mashed potatoes.
We may do other sit downs while there because older daughter doesn't go very often and she may want to choose something. There are still plenty of great options where you don't have to plan in advance. I think this is ignored because everyone gets locked into 'what people are talking about' is what they have to score.
But, I'm happy to follow my own plan: breakfast in my villa with full kitchen, and I realize not everyone has this option. Throughout the day it will be food and wine kiosks, quick service, snacks, and then maybe dinner onsite, offsite or in room depending on our desires - very few locked in plans. Flying Fish is right on the Boardwalk and Yachtsman Steakhouse is a short walk as are Blue Zoo, Shula's and the Italian restaurant at Swan - rarely need a reservation.
Of site - I like to go over to Celebration for a pizza and a glass of wine at Antonios, and sometimes I like to go to the Columbia Restaurant which is also in Celebration. There is a Mexican restaurant right on 535 which we went to by accident. Been back several times because it is very good. Not just a pinto bean and rice place - outstanding seafood and other options.
Bottom line is we don't spend thousands on Disney food and we eat well and also try to eat fresh and healthy.