I was wondering about Benadryl. I was planning to ask his pediatrician what she thought.
I know you've already gotten a lot of advice, but we have travel often with our kiddos since they were infants, so throwing in my two cent!
- His own seat/car seat will be most familiar (although sounds like he hates. ☹). We had a Cosco Scenera car seat for travel- super lightweight and easy to travel with.
- Have 1 parent get on first to install car seat, wipe everything down, get toys set up. The other parent takes baby/kid for last diaper/potty stop, run around the airport, etc and board the plan with the last boarding group. Baby spends less time in the seat, and parent has time to set up without wiggly baby to juggle/people waiting behind you
- Those ear things look great. I received advice to feed baby at takeoff/landing. Didn't realize she got motion sick. I got puked on EVERY flight until she was able to tell me the plane "hurt her tummy". We now use dramamine and those wrist bands. Anyway, bring changes of clothes on board for all of you!
- I always resisted benedryl. Didn't use it last year for HI and regretted it. We used it this year for HI and worked GREAT (kids are 7 & 10). Kids actually requested it for flight home. Obviously talk to Dr and do a trial run in advance.
- Do whatever it takes to entertain/keep baby happy. If that's a pacifier, snacks or screen time you usually limit at home, new toys (we call them "plane prizes" - small new toy/activity to entertain). They get a lollipop for takeoff (we did tic tacs for latest flight with masks). My kids actually ENJOY travel bc of these "treats". My 7yo told me he doesn't mind the flight to HI because I'd never let him watch his Kindle for that many hours straight at home!
- Toddlers are the worst to fly/travel with. They are old enough to want to me moving around, but too young to reason with. As another poster said - expect the worst, hope for the best! It gets better.