havaneselover
Dreaming about a Disney cruise
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Ugh. I've had so many tough sports experience with my ADHD kid--granted not at the level your son is playing at, but it has sucked. It started when DS was playing Little League and the coach was a total jerk and because DS (I think he was 7 or 8 at the time) didn't pay attention in the field he was punished by only being allowed to play catcher (way too much equipment). And in basketball he just had a tough time following auditory directions and coaches don't get that this is not intentional.I have 2 pairs of Uggs, one I've never worn. And the other got a whole in the toe area after wearing only a handful of times. I'm a fan of Fuggs, Bearpaws are my go to. Now those have lasted 4+ seasons. I like them to wear at the cold rinks, and most of the winter here, LOL.
I saved up all my my spins and did them last night. I got 4000 and 40 miles. So I'm up 4120 I think now. Today both spins were a bust.
Had a rough Thursday. My son was cut from his hockey team. We weren't expecting it at all. His coaches have told us numerous times that he is the best on the team. They were unhappy w/ his lack of motivation/leadership. Mind you he's 11. He was struggling hard w/ being off the ice for so long (gained 20lbs), and online school. His dad finally agreed to have him start adderall (he was failing every class with like a 20% or lower). The change was IMMEDIATE! Grades are A's and B's and his coaches were raving about how he was skating the best they'd ever seen. One of his coaches was SHOCKED to hear Brady was cut. Two of his coaches have pledged to get him on any team he wants. It's a struggle because my son is a natural (not just mama glasses here). But he "hates" playing because I "force" him. But the thing is he has so much fun at practices and games. But like every 11 yo, he'd stay home and play Minecraft 24/7 if we let him. So yes, he's "forced". We're giving him the choice of which clubs to try out for. One of his also coaches the #8 team in the country (for Brady's age) and has flat out said, Brady is good enough to skate for them. He just lacks the maturity and focus (ADHD kid to the MAX). We honestly think Brady just rubbed one of the coaches wrong, his other 3 have been saying how great he is. And like I said, 2 have promised to get him on another team. Other hockey parents might understand the fun that is hockey. The other thing is, that coach is kinda pointing us away from teams that mean we would play them. That coach's son is the goalie, and I think he doesn't want to play my son because he knows he can light it up and score like crazy, LOL. And when my son has a beef against a coach, he plays about 10 times harder against that team.![]()
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So my next week will be spent at a different hockey rink (or 2) every night. UGH.
I'm a P1, though my DD has AU cards. I have kinda gotten my BF into it. He has a CFU that he uses most of the time now.
I'm thinking that too. Might as well make the last payment before it expires the payoff. Gone are those 4% earning days.
I have my wedding ring sitting in my jewelry box. I'm thinking of doing something w/ the diamond for DD. She hates $$$ jewelry. I wanted to get her a Tiffany's shamrock necklace (she's born on St. Patty's Day) but she was like, NO!!! It's too much! Maybe w/ time she'll get over that. At the same time I'm like, does my DD need a diamond, LOL.
This situation with your son will sort itself out. But ADHD kids need advocates and cheerleaders. We do vyvanse which costs a small fortune and it took forever to get his dad on board.
And I thought of saving the center diamond for DD but then I decided I wanted diamond studs.
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