I know, I know, this seems so trivial, but....

[ckay87]

Imagine this situation: You walk through a room - just passing through - and someone else is in that room doing something. The window is open. You know the person in the room opened the window. You think it's cool, but you are not staying in the room. Do you close the window? Oh, and the heat is not on, by the way.




NO...of course you don't. DH is working at home now and it is one petty thing after another driving me crazy. Do you think that enough petty situations can drive a person to the point of a nervous breakdown? I do.

Thanks for listening

 

[freckles and boo]

I TWICE read that as "I know, I know, I am so PRETTY, but..."

Sorry about your husband. Tell him to knock it off.

 

[sbell111]

I TWICE read that as "I know, I know, I am so PRETTY, but..."

Sorry about your husband. Tell him to knock it off.

Me, too. I was having a heck of time trying to figure out how the OP's vanity played into the issue.

 

[ckay87]

OMG that is so funny, you won't catch me saying that! Let me work on that title.

 

[dis-happy]

OMG, is your husband related to my dh? Last night he comes into the family room where I'm watching TV, changes the TV station to the US Open, and then LEAVES. Disappears completely upstairs to his office and never comes back down.

 

[sbell111]

Tell him to keep his mitts off the window. If he's doing it because it makes him cold/too windy in another room, close the door.

 

[sbell111]

OMG, is your husband related to my dh? Last night he comes into the family room where I'm watching TV, changes the TV station to the US Open, and then LEAVES. Disappears completely upstairs to his office and never comes back down.

Are you sure that he wasn't just teasing you?

 

[Piecey]

DH does this...

I've learned to live with it because he's crankier than me.
He's bad about cieling fans, windows, the air, the heat, etc...

So I have slipper, hoodies and blankets readily available when he comes home from work!

 

[npmommie]

LOL, my dh does stuff like that too.
and yes I believe enough can lead to a breakdown

 

[lovetoscrap]

I think the more appropriate question here is if this is an acceptable argument for a justifiable homocide case!

Isn't it amazing how the little things start to add up? DFIL retired a few months ago and DMIL is already trying to decide if she is going to apply for a job as a Greeter at Walmart, or make him!

 

[Pooh_Friend#1]

My DH walks into the room and changes the TV station. It makes me so angry. I will be sitting on the couch watching TV. He comes in and sits down and as soon as it goes to commercial he changes it. I say to him, Hello someone else in the room who was watching that...your not the only here. Oh it makes me so mad!

 

[Liberty Belle]

My husband does this, too. He'll also turn off lights I've turned on (when he is not staying in the room with me), turn the tv down (when it's not disturbing him in another room), etc.

It's very annoying.

 

[Liberty Belle]

My DH walks into the room and changes the TV station. It makes me so angry. I will be sitting on the couch watching TV. He comes in and sits down and as soon as it goes to commercial he changes it. I say to him, Hello someone else in the room who was watching that...your not the only here. Oh it makes me so mad!

My stepdad used to do that to us. And it wasn't because he didn't realize we were watching it, he just thought that his viewing desires came before ours. That's the way he was raised. I hated it.

 

[KAMKIM]

My DH walks into the room and changes the TV station. It makes me so angry. I will be sitting on the couch watching TV. He comes in and sits down and as soon as it goes to commercial he changes it. I say to him, Hello someone else in the room who was watching that...your not the only here. Oh it makes me so mad!

LOL yep I think that they think because they have a ***** it makes them ultimate KING of the remote.

 

[Darsa]

I can absolutely feel your pain; I work full time then go home to do homework checks, dinner, cleanup... and then he comes in and with a VERY martyred air, takes some laundry and puts it in the washer. This is, to him, "doing the laundry". We don't discuss the fact that I switch it to the dryer, take it out, fold it and hang it and put it away...