There is something to do about all these scams! Nobody can "steal" your stuff without your participation.
1) Only do trades that can be completed in one transaction.
2) Do not lend anything to anybody that you would be sad to lose.
3) Take your time and confirm each time all the items in the trade.
Very good advice, especially number 1. People take multiple-window trades way too much for granted.
And don't ever assume that somebody you don't know is safe to trust with this kind of trade, even if they actually do have "CL" in front of their name.
Yes that would be great if the value of some items was not more than one trade window will allow.
I have to say we have only ourselves to thank for that. If we had all scoffed at the idea of "mega trades" way back in the beginning, and refused to trade everything we own for one item, then trading values might not be so out of control now.
I sincerely wish VMK would just put Inferno, flips, Stitch, ALL of it on sale for a good chunk of credits so some of this madness would stop. A game about Disney magic is increasingly set up to inherently promote greed, envy, and jealousy.
I agree. Buyable items (even when they are expensive like bat magic) don't seem to draw as many problems.
As much as I don't like the "exclusive" aspect of VMK's economy, they cannot be completely to blame. Unfortunately, as long as players are willing to part with bucket loads of their items to get something rare, this is going to keep happening.
I guess I am just plain dense today.
You have to hit accept multiple times for a trade to go through. How people get things stolen from them, I just am completely missing.
Was it a 2 window trade? That's the only thing I can figure out.
I am asking so that others can learn what happened and not have it happen to them.
Yes, it was more than one window full. In cases like this, the trader of the single "valuable" item usually isn't willing to put it in the first trade window, in case the other person runs off with it without giving them the rest of their items. But that in turn makes it possible for
them to disappear before the final trade window, without handing the rare item over.
People are in the habit of calling this "stealing", especially since we can't say "scam" in VMK.