I have a BIG problem....HELP!!!!!!

JerJan

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Here's the story as short & painless as I can make it. DH and my 2 DD's 5 & 13 and myself are supposed to check in to HH in our 2 bedroom on 8/7 and stay 5 nights leaving on 8/12.....I was so excited and really looking forward to this trip! PROBLEM...........We just took the DD 5 to Hershey this weekend and she was carsick :sick: all the way there (thru the mountains) I also tend to have trouble myself in the car around walls, bridges, cliffs and I had 3 panic attacks :crazy: on the way myself! It was so bad that DH flew DD and myself home (can't wait to get that bill) :earseek: and he drove home by his self! (It's going to be a VERY LONG week in this house, if you know what I mean.) I don't know how we are going to make the trip to HH from Ohio...... West Virginia has lots of mountains...I assume that's why they call it the mountain state!!!??? Should I cancel our ressie and if so do we lose all of the points? Do I try to trade the 2 bedroom for a studio (yeah...I know...good luck!) and rent the 100 points that we would not use to pay for airfare? Do I try to find a nice Dr to prescribe alot of valium for me so DH doesn't throw his crazy :crazy: wife out of the car while it's moving? Bring alot of plastic bags and rolls of paper towels and clean clothes for DD 5???? HELP!!!! Any suggestions.................
 
have you tried motion sickness bracelets? you can find them at wal mart and usually a pharmacy.dramamine may also help you.
 
Thanks...Yes, we tried the motion sickness bracelets that we used for the DCL in 1/05...she threw-up :sick: on those too! The dramamine might work for her though, thanks for the suggestion.
 
SORRY webmaster... I think I should have posted this on the community board! :confused3
 

I too have a child very prone to motion sickness. We did the drive to HH from PA this past April and it was about 13 hours. We elected to break it up on the way down, staying overnight with my uncle in NC. We also did the bulk of our driving at night when the kids were asleep.

Can you do the same? Leave late afternoon, check in to a hotel when you have half the drive under your belt? Then the next day, spend some time swimming or outdoors before doing the remainder of your drive at night? Its a pain to check in late with a sleeping child in the car, but this strategy worked like a charm for us! Also we were more relaxed and ready to enjoy our vacation rather than stressed out from one long continuous ride.

Good luck! HH will be worth it when you arrive!!! :Pinkbounc
 
2 things, if you cancel your ressie now, your points will go into "holding" that means they can only be used to book ressies 60 days in advance. I would check the rent/trade board, I saw someone on there looking for any HH ressie the first three weeks in August.

As for the motion sickness, I get very car sick. No reading in the car helps. Also, I read a great tip on these boards years ago that has saved me often. Carry the individual pads of rubbing alchol. If she gets the least bit queasy, open the package, put it near her nose and have her take several deep breaths. The nausea usually passes in seconds.

Good luck
 
Ask your pediatrician, to be sure, but there is also meclazine, or trade name Bonine. They are little pink chewables....I gave my DD7 about 1/2 pill when she was around 4 and 5 (still do). Because it was chewable it went down easier. Both dramamine and bonine will cause sleepiness, however.

Also, the reason you get carsick is because the brain is sensing a difference between what it is seeing and feeling. When you are riding in a car and looking down or outside the side window there is a disproportion between the rate of movement in the peripheral vision and the near vision (the outside is moving rapidly, the inside isn't moving). Normally, in cave woman days, this would indicate a poisoning and you'd urp to get rid of the poison. Brain hasn't caught up with modern transportation yet- so you need to get rid of this disproportion. DO NOT read, look down, look out the side windows, etc....look out the front window and off at the horizon as much as possible (no watching the mail boxes or fence posts on the side of the road). Little guys in the back seat have a harder time- and tend to be watching videos, reading, or watching those quickly moving sign posts. Try and get your DD to look straight ahead and not down. Sleeping isn't a problem, as much, because your eyes are closed, so sleeping is good.

Anyway- good luck. We are driving to HH on Thursday with our 4 kids (DD17, DD13, DS9 and DD7). Inevitably, someone will get sick-we've learned to carry trash bags and to pull over quick. Bonine does help, though!
 
Dramamine works great with my daughter. I get her the regular kind because the going to sleep is partly what helps her. This was a child who puked whether driving through mountainous TN or flat KS. Dramamine has been a God-send for us.

Best wishes!

Kristen
 
I agree with Val. Try the Bonine as opposed to Dramamine. DH and I swear by it. We take the train and each take one pill about an hour before departure. It does not make you drowsy at all or "foggy" like Dramamine. Also, when we are at WDW, on days we'll be riding TOT and RNRC, we usually each take a half. Really helps takes the edge off.

Also, this may sound silly, but it could be the type of car. When we took the kids and grandkids in a big, rented conversion van, they had absolutely no problems at all even tho' daughter said they always got sick. We figured it might have been because there was lots of room (and air) and they were sitting up so high in their car seats (ages 3 and 5). They even ate snacks and drank juice while we were driving. Sure enough, when we dropped them off and they had to finish the drive home in their Mustang, DD called on her cell and said they weren't in the car 30 minutes and both kids tossed their cookies.

This year, we are meeting them at WDW and DD says they are renting a van for the drive down, no questions! ;)
 
We have driven to FL and HH a few times with my DS 8 who gets motion sickness. Our Pediatrician recommended Benadryl. Seems to work. We haven't had any incidents of him vomiting, but we keep bags, wipes, etc in his seat pocket just in case.
 
Forget about OTC meds.

Go to the doctor and ask for Transderm Scop, a/k/a the scopalamine patch. It works wonders. You put the patch on the day or night before your trip. It is a powerful belladonna alkaloid and is helpful in even the most severe cases of motion sickness, but it most be placed on the body before you go on your trip.

It will not help, in other words, if the motion sickness has already set in.

Good luck.
 
WOW! You guys are great with your wonderful tips! Now what about me...does/has anyone out there (adults) suffer from panic attacks in the car? How do you handle them? This is getting worse for me as I get older, it actually started in my late 20's and now that I'm 43 it's getting uncontrolable! :crazy:
 
I agree with either with the patch if your DD is old enough, not sure if theres a age limit. Otherwise Benydril is great for kids, i usually give it to DD when we fly. I get motion sick when we drive, so instead of me telling DH i just do more of the driving that helps me. Or eating helps me :love: But we always pack a plastic garbage can & paper towels for the trip .

you could always start looking for airfare, southwest you can book less then 7 days out and still get good airfare. I am not sure if you will be able to down size to a studio, i bet HH is booked for the summer.

Good Luck !
 
JerJan said:
WOW! You guys are great with your wonderful tips! Now what about me...does/has anyone out there (adults) suffer from panic attacks in the car? How do you handle them? This is getting worse for me as I get older, it actually started in my late 20's and now that I'm 43 it's getting uncontrolable! :crazy:


I suggest you contact your family doctor. You probably have two choices, sedatives and/or thearpy. While thearpy might eventually cure you of the panic attacks it is unlikely to do it between now and early August so it sounds like you are on sedatives. This does mean you will not be able to drive at all.
 
Does anyone think that my regular family Dr would write a prescription for a sedative or would I have to persue this with another type of professional :crazy: ?? I really feel silly having this problem at 43...I used to actually drive an ambulance for a living in South Florida...UNBELIEVEABLE!!!!! :crazy2:
 
Well, seeing as how you'll be driving right along with us, I can at least tell you what to expect coming through WV all the way down to HHI. I should note that if you suffer from panic attacks -- don't go over the Maryland Bay Bridge, LOL -- that sucker freaks me out. <a href='http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb008_ZSzeb04242US' target='_blank'><img src='http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/4/4_6_100.gif' alt='Afraid' border=0></a> These days, I just refuse to drive it -- DH does it instead -- because my hands hurt so badly from clenching the wheel! talk about white knuckles.... I should also note I am terribly prone to motion sickness as is my DS, age 10. So first I'll tell you what to expect -- then what we have done that has (or hasn't) helped.

Coming through Parkersburg to CHarleston on I-77 is no big whoop. Some hills -- but not really "mountainous". There is some mountain driving between charleston and Wytheville (right around beckley to Princeton area) but understand it is interstate, meaning the roads are wide and the steepness not as severe as some of your smaller roads or highways. I should also note there are 2 tunnels you will go through in the drive from Princeton to Wytheville. Once you get to Virginia, it's a lot of up/down hills (but not twisty, so much) UNTIL you get nearer to Fancy Gap -- there is one stretch there that is twisty and typical mountain driving (yes, it's a white knuckles time for me!) I recall a bridge I don't like -- but nothing as bad as the one in Maryland. I believe this is the bridge over the New River -- long and straight and well, it's a bridge, nuf said. ONce you get out of Virginia and into NC, it's pretty smooth sailing. No more tunnels, no more real mountains -- just mainly rolling hills.

SOOOO... what have we done to combat the motion sickness. Well, I've tried Bonine (it didn't work for me) and wrist bands (no dice). I've tried Dramamine -- (which works, although only if you don't mind being in a drooling comatose stupor for the whole ride!) Basically I follow the rules I used when I had morning sickness -- nibble the ENTIRE WAY, as does my son, on tame things like crackers, ginger snaps (ginger is good for nausea), protein items like nuts or cheese sticks, and keep a Coke or ginger ale to sip. I have given my son Dramamine. As with any of those type meds -- do it an hour in advance, with a bit of food. It won't work right away. My son does not watch the TV in the van -- he watches the world go by instead. No reading, no looking at anything stationary within the van. We give him a "snort port" of fresh air (the little vent windows in our van). If it gets bad, we move him to the middle seat, if need be, and put dd in the back (she doesn't seem to have inherited the motion sickness gene, haha!) I have also tried giving him 2 Benadryl chewables about 1 hr before we drive -- this does 2 things. (1) Makes him drowsy. A sleeping child usually is not a carsick one. (2) Clears his sinuses. (Dramamine does roughly the same thing -- it just wipes him out even more, though.) My kids are allergic to dust -- he would get snuffy after several hours on the road anyway, this helps alleviate the after effects of road dust. Also -- clearing the inner ear canal of fluid helps nausea. ANother thing we do -- leave the house VERY EARLY IN THE MORNING. LIke, 3 am when we're Disney bound! THis means the kids will invariably sleep, and we can get through the worst "curves " of the trip while they doze. They usually are awake when we stick them in the van but doze off right around Charleston. By the time they awaken, we're 5 hrs down the road, right around Statesville or Charlotte! Good time to stop at a Cracker Barrel for breakfast. Make frequent stops, if you must -- we found the state welcome centers to be a "welcomed" stop by our crew. The grounds are usually large enough to permit them to snort some fresh air and run around a bit -- this really helps them regain their equilibrium faster, I think. As for me, I find being in control helps me with my nausea and fears to some degree -- I often drive as a result... unless, as I said earlier, it's Maryland. Bridges give me the heebies. I just visualize going right off the brink... the whole time DH is driving us over the bridge, I'm thinking, "Ok, when we go over the edge, I'll grab Caroline from her seat and DH can get the boys..." It's pathetic to think I'm already planning our escape route, but I do it EVERY time and by the time we reach the other side, I'm mentally and emotionally relieved -- but exhausted!
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We will probably break our trip to HHI up into 2 segments -- we will drive to S.C. to my Mom's house on the Friday night (late -- so kids will sleep in car), then stay with her a day, then leave early SUnday morning to drive the 3 hrs to HHI.

If you have any other questions about the HHI drive -- let me know -- we always drive to Disney and my family lives in S.C. so we do the I-77/I-26/I-95 trek QUITE often! As for anxiety -- my niece takes meds for it -- I would see a physician. Life is too short to curtail enjoying the "good stuff" due to fear... and HHI and DVC are definitely the GOOD stuff! (Besides -- if you don't go to HHI that week, how will our families ever meet? Me, BWVDenise and all those other Aug 7-14 week DVCers are counting on you to be there!)

Hope you find a solution that works for all, with safe travelin', and we'll see you SOON!
 
JerJan said:
Does anyone think that my regular family Dr would write a prescription for a sedative or would I have to persue this with another type of professional :crazy: ?? I really feel silly having this problem at 43...I used to actually drive an ambulance for a living in South Florida...UNBELIEVEABLE!!!!! :crazy2:


You don't say whether you are having the PA all the time while driving (including short distances) or just on extended trips. (Driving an ambulance for a living certainly could qualify for an "extended trip".)

I know several primary care physicians who would have no difficulty prescribing meds for their patients who fly on occasion. I don't see lengthy car trips as being any different. If, however, you are having this problem every time you get in the car, then it's clear that some desensitization and behavioral therapy (facilitated by meds) will be essential. In fact, you should probably do it anyway.

However, as a short-term solution to your problem, you can certainly ask your primary MD for a small, non-refillable prescription for Xanax (one of the more common meds used to treat PA). You will have to be sure that it is not contraindicated in any way, of course.

(Disclaimer: I used to be a therapist who treated anxiety disorders. But I am not a professional now, and I am not offering professional advice. I am just sharing my knowledge. You should always seek your doctor's advice. YMMV. Etc. :) )
 
Hi JerJan ~
I was thinking more along the lines of what StormalongKay said. Maybe you could drive during the night when your dd would naturally be inclined to sleep ? We used to do this when our kids were younger. Makes for a more peaceful, serene trip. I also recommend the Bonine. We done two Disney cruises in the past 4 years and 1/2 a Bonine for each child did the trick. Check with the pediatrician as well. They might have a suggestion.
Good luck. Would hate to see you have to cancel.
 
This only happens when I am in UNFAMILIAR TERRITORY or as stated previously next to retaining walls (ie: construction zones) bridges, tunnels....almost maybe like claustraphobia (sp ?) I fell much better when I am driving...but FREAK if I come up on any of the above mentioned and literally feel as if I'm going to pull-off the steering wheel from clenching it so tightly! Thanks for the tips!!!
 
WOW!! Gopherit...I'm glad to know that it's not just ME :rotfl2: :rotfl2: :rotfl2: I relly thought I was going to rip the arm rest off of the seat more than a few times! I took the plunge and just made an appointment with the :crazy: Dr!!!! I am still planing on getting to HH...and now I have to let you know how I did! I'll be the one in the :drinking1 "drunken stuper" passed out :faint: by the pool!!! :rotfl2: You'll know it's me, when you hear 13 DD saying something like "can you believe she had to see a "SHRINK" just to go to HH for 5 days?" :rotfl:
 












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