I don't get it?

[purplehusky]

I don't get it..
So there's this guy, my crush. He has been real nice to me, acting like he likes me for this week, and now today I talk to him, and he looks confused. He looks like he is wondering why I am talking to him... And later, I was walking to class, a class that I have with him, and he was right in front of me. He was like "Why are you following me".. This has happened before too, he acts like he likes me for a couple of days, and then not..
And it makes me feel sad..
Anyone understand why?
Can someone give me advice?

 

[m-and-m]

i think its because of what his friends think. you should just ignor him when he's being mean

 

[purplehusky]

I first thought that too, but there is big breaks in between when he is nice, and not..

 

[meeshheartsdisney217]

were his friends around? cuz taht's usuall when people ignore you.


and don't worry about him. someone should like you no matter what time of day it is.

 

[shellybellypolo]

My crush does this sometimes, too. He's generally popular, but not really that much, and he always makes fun of meh in Spanish. "Spazz", and "Cinderella-Wannabe" are some of the many nicknames I get. But I swear I think he likes me. Three exibits:

1. One day in Spanish, I was feeling really bad, like stinky I'm-A-Loser bad. He noticed this and asked me what was wrong. When [Insert name] and [Insert name] tried to make fun of me, his words were surprisingly "Back off, she's having a bad day". Then he asked me what was wrong. That's kinda how I fell for him... <3

2. When he's not around his friends and such, he acts nicer, like he'll say "hi" in the hallway. Today I actually had a normal conversation with him telling him about how we're disecting worms

3. When he's not feeling good, he lets me talk to him.

Monday, i plan to get him to recognize my phone #! He sometimes snoops in my purse, and my phone # is on my retainer case. maybe if he saw it... Muahaha!

 

[Babyjustrun]

Well.
I have an idea.
Sometimes people will just adore a person, for like a week, and they want to be nice to them and stuff. But eventually, after that they get sick of them.
I went through this one week where I was obsessed with this guy and my friend & I spent a lot of time with him. But the next week, we were kind of bored with him (seems mean doesn't it?) and he just got annoying and begged for attention.

While this may not be your case, he may just be really irregular with people.

 

[dopeygirl156]

Well if he's doing that to you then he doesn't deserve you, you need to fine somebody who likes you no matter what and not just half the time. I think you should move on amd find someother guy.

 

[purplehusky]

Thanks for the advice you guys.
I think I am going to take dopeygirl's.
And also:
It isn't when he is around his friends that he ignore me.. It is werid.. Some guys are so confusing

 

[CastawayJ]

mabey he wants you to like him so he can embaress you

a lot of people used to do that to me

 

[purplehusky]

Hey, I saw you play the trumpet!!
So do I
Also:
Why would someone want to do that? Just seems so werid

 

[BabyPiglet]

Yeah people do that. Also I know I am gonna get bashed for this, but maybe you are over-doing his nice-ness to you. Like blowing it out of proportion. I am just trying to give you real, honest advice.

Do not worry about him, I'm sure you can get much better guys.