Here is the background. DS21 and his GF21 just had a baby girl 9 days ago. He is a senior in college and lives an hour and half from here. GF lives near us. GF live with her Dad and has no relationship with her mom. We all went to family day at DS's school yesterday. GF came here on friday and stayed overnight and we left early in the morning to see DS. We came home last night at 11:30pm. GF still had all her and baby's stuff here. She was very tired and went right to bed with her baby when we got home. Today she mostly hung out in Ds's bedroom napping on and off with the baby. This afternoon she came down and said do you want to take me home or should I have my Dad come pick me up? I said it does not matter. She said Okay you can take me home. I said fine. DD12 asked if she was staying for dinner and she said yes. Fine with me. I went to the sore, came home and was just about to start dinner and she said I am really tired I am going to lay down while the baby is sleeping. She is really tired she has been nursing around the clock. I fix dinner and she is sleeping. We were eating and sheis still sleeping. I am not going to wake her up for dinner she was so tired. Well, she finally came down and ate and got ready to go and we left. I pulled in her driveway and her Dad came flying out the door yelling at me. He was furious that I did not bring her home the night before. I tried to explain that she was tired. I said did you talk to her? He said yes she told me she was spending the night at your house. I thought she would be home in the morning. I said did you call her?? No, he did not. He just kept yelling at me about keeping his daughter at my house. ( I am fuuly equiped for the baby). He said she is only allowed at my house if my son is there
He kept yelling she is in my van crying, my dd12 is with us....it was not good. He accused me of puposefully keeping her at my house. I have known her for three years...she is like my own daughter. I just do not get it. Did I do something wrong here? Now she called my DS and was crying and he was in the middle of working on a research project (he is premed). Now he said he is having a hard time concentrating cause her dad got everyone upset and he is now upset. So instead of doing school work he is on the phone with GF. The one thing we wanted was for him to get through school. He cannot have any distractions or problems at this stage of his education. He needs to get into med school here so he can take care of his baby. I have no idea what to do. I guess I will never see my grand daughter, cause DS can't come home very often with work and school.
He kept yelling she is in my van crying, my dd12 is with us....it was not good. He accused me of puposefully keeping her at my house. I have known her for three years...she is like my own daughter. I just do not get it. Did I do something wrong here? Now she called my DS and was crying and he was in the middle of working on a research project (he is premed). Now he said he is having a hard time concentrating cause her dad got everyone upset and he is now upset. So instead of doing school work he is on the phone with GF. The one thing we wanted was for him to get through school. He cannot have any distractions or problems at this stage of his education. He needs to get into med school here so he can take care of his baby. I have no idea what to do. I guess I will never see my grand daughter, cause DS can't come home very often with work and school.
Maybe the Dad had a disagreement about that as well- leading to his overreaction?
