This thread seems to be a mix of responses from 'normal people' and 'germaphobes' - sorry if that description offends some people but the fact that many people waste resources putting everything through the dishwasher when they arrive and re-cleaning an apartment that has been cleaned by housekeeping offends me!
I wonder if anyone has done a study or survey to see if chidren brought up in a very sanitized house are less or more healthy than one brought up in a less sanitized one?
This never fails to happen here on the DIS - people who are not that into cleaning get insultive (you have offended many of us who like things cleaner by calling us not 'normal') and post links to oversanitizing, etc. This is the thing: some of us have weaker immune systems than others, some of us have asthma/allergies to mold or dust, some of us have had children almost die from catching viruses from being exposed to others who didn't feel the need to stay inside while they were very ill.
The OP posted a legitimate question about this topic - the fact is, hotels are shared by many different people, so the need for sanitation is there. Your sanitation level may not be mine, but there is no need to get insulting about it. There are lots of ill children -Make a Wish children to be exact at WDW - so it's important to pass sanitizing tips around. Regardless of whether you or someone else has not sanitized and touched remotes, lightswitches, etc., has no bearing on the OP's family or her level of cleanliness. We are a very green family as well, but we do re-wash the dishes and glasses because catching a contagious illness from the last room occupants is not high on our list of fun while on vacation - been there, done that with an infant, and it's very scary!
We always wipe down remotes, lightswitches and phones as the infectious disease specialists that I've dealt with in my life, have all concurred that wiping down these areas between visitors is essential in not spreading germs. I do it myself because the dirty rag that the maid uses to clean my room for me, doesn't quite cut it. Remotes and phones in hotel rooms hardly ever get cleaned, and they can and have been swabbed and proven to carry some serious viruses and bacteria - these could be devastating to some people's immune systems. Do I use antibacterial cleaners at home? Nope, as this I believe is oversanitizing (we use vinegar, Lotus sanitizer - it uses water! and green/organic natural cleaners), but, remember, when in a hotel room, you are being exposed to other people's germs from all over the world, again, not good for some people's systems, so extra cleaning is prudent in this situation.
To those of you who don't sanitize and have Teflon immune systems, good for you, but please remember, some of us do not, nor have children who do not, so suggesting that we are not 'normal' or contributing to some type of oversanitizing problem is not necessary. A little bit of common germs do strengthen our immune systems, but for babies, elderly or any other immunocompromised people to catch streph, staph or rhotavirus, as examples of bacteria that live on hard surfaces, these could be deadly.
To the OP, I wish you a good vacation and a room that is clean and safe for you and your family to stay in, but if not, wipe it down yourself - I'm sure you'd do a much better job anyway - I know I do!
Tiger