Husbands.....

[golfgal]

Ok, I am upstairs in our computer room, DH sends DS14 up to tell me that DH wants to talk to me. Um, ok, then DH can come upstairs and talk to me. So, DH comes upstairs, calls ME crabby, and asks me a question. Then he walks out of the room, my back is turned, I don't have my hearing aids in, he asks me another question (do I have any cash) which I didn't hear then gets mad because I didn't answer. I'M crabby Oh, and yes, honey, I have some cash, by all means take my cash so then I have to go to the cash machine AGAIN, instead of you.....

 

[pilotwife_02]

Sorry he's crabby. I hate when DH is cranky and tells me I'm the one in a bad mood. At least he told you know he's taking your cash. Maybe he'll buy something with cash he too from you

DH will just take ALL my cash out of my wallet before he goes on a trip (he's a pilot and will often leave at 4am and doesn't like to stop at the ATM that early in the morning). So I'll go somewhere and discover I have no cash on me, or will ask someone at work to pick up lunch for me and when I go to give them money I won't have any and then feel bad that I have to owe them money . At least leave me a note or text me to tell me you took my money. I tell DH I'm NOT his personal ATM.

 

[golfgal]

Sorry he's crabby. I hate when DH is cranky and tells me I'm the one in a bad mood. At least he told you know he's taking your cash. Maybe he'll buy something with cash he too from you

DH will just take ALL my cash out of my wallet before he goes on a trip (he's a pilot and will often leave at 4am and doesn't like to stop at the ATM that early in the morning). So I'll go somewhere and discover I have no cash on me, or will ask someone at work to pick up lunch for me and when I go to give them money I won't have any and then feel bad that I have to owe them money . At least leave me a note or text me to tell me you took my money. I tell DH I'm NOT his personal ATM.

Usually he doesn't tell me so I end up like you, opening my wallet to no cash. DH is going to the PGA tournament, he won't buy me anything (besides I already bought myself stuff when I was out there the other day).

 

[tonilea]

It must be something in the air. My DH had a huge blowup yesterday and ended up apologizing to me, ds and the secretary.

 

[Tinijocaro]

You know what? My dh does the same thing. Calls me from across the house because he either want to tell me something or show me something. He wants me to come to him-which I've been doing like an idiot for 19 years. It finally dawned on me this year that when I want to talk to him, I go to him and he should do the same when he wants to talk to me.

I feel a bit silly that it took this long to realize this.

 

[brockash]

Ok, I am upstairs in our computer room, DH sends DS14 up to tell me that DH wants to talk to me. Um, ok, then DH can come upstairs and talk to me. So, DH comes upstairs, calls ME crabby, and asks me a question. Then he walks out of the room, my back is turned, I don't have my hearing aids in, he asks me another question (do I have any cash) which I didn't hear then gets mad because I didn't answer. I'M crabby Oh, and yes, honey, I have some cash, by all means take my cash so then I have to go to the cash machine AGAIN, instead of you.....

Sounds just like my DH. Argh, do they ever start to get it???

 

[DisneyBlonde]

You know what? My dh does the same thing. Calls me from across the house because he either want to tell me something or show me something. He wants me to come to him-which I've been doing like an idiot for 19 years. It finally dawned on me this year that when I want to talk to him, I go to him and he should do the same when he wants to talk to me.

I feel a bit silly that it took this long to realize this.

My Dh is the same way. I won't do it. We've only been married for 3 years, I'm breaking him in right.

 

[Buckalew11]

Must be in the water. My DH was grouchy night before last and I'm not sure why.

If he wants cash, I tell him to do like I do and go pick it off the tree in the backyard.

 

[kathie859]

I think this is just the nature of the beast

Last week, I called DH to dinner a few times and got no response (he was in the downstairs listening to a CD)--So I called the house phone from my cell phone FOUR TIMES before he picked up I announced that dinner was on the table and HE seemed offput that I took this manner of communication Whatever...he got over it!

FWIW, I could walk up to DH right now and ask him how much he has in his wallet--he couldn't tell me if he had $1 or $100. It's just his nature. Me, on the other hand, can tell you pretty much within a few dollars how much I have on me!

Oh well, if we were all the same, it would be boring

 

[lisajl]

Aww gesh! My DH is crabby too! He really never complains and that is all he has done the last 3 days. He is ready to quit his job!
No worries though, we are going away today, just the two of us.
That will help us both out.

Lisa

 

[dejr_8]

Ok, I am upstairs in our computer room, DH sends DS14 up to tell me that DH wants to talk to me. Um, ok, then DH can come upstairs and talk to me. So, DH comes upstairs, calls ME crabby, and asks me a question. Then he walks out of the room, my back is turned, I don't have my hearing aids in, he asks me another question (do I have any cash) which I didn't hear then gets mad because I didn't answer. I'M crabby Oh, and yes, honey, I have some cash, by all means take my cash so then I have to go to the cash machine AGAIN, instead of you.....

Did you vow to Love, honor and obey? If so, you should have gotten up and gone downstairs to speak with your husband.

(for full disclosure I am a husband )

 

[golfgal]

Did you vow to Love, honor and obey? If so, you should have gotten up and gone downstairs to speak with your husband.

(for full disclosure I am a husband )

ABSOLUTELY NOT. I made sure those words were not in our vows. I did vow to love, honor and cherish but NOT obey.

Well, it sounds like I am good company with crabby husbands this morning.

 

[hereyago]

My exdh, when he was DH would whistle to get my attention, like you whistle at a dog. I just pretended not to hear him. SOrry, I am not someone's pet or beck and call girl.

I won't ever get married again, because I just won't put up with crap that I used to.

My exdh used to do the take money from my wallet and I worked to, he did it once, then I would hide the money from him. His now gf tells me that he goes and takes her atm card and withdraws money from the account i tell her maybe she shouldn't have given him the pin number and access to her card.

 

[JR6ooo4]

Now come on..... lets not stereotype husbands. Boyfriends can be just as thoughtfull.




and wives


MIkeeee

 

[hereyago]

Now come on..... lets not stereotype husbands. Boyfriends can be just as thoughtfull.




and wives


MIkeeee

That is true, my DM would do that yelllng through at door to my DF. He also enabled that, but that isn't me and I haven't done that just because that is just rude.

 

[manning]

Now I understand. When taking our wedding vows I said "I will" and then she said "or else".