laceemouse said:
I guess it is different strokes for different folks! I really don't get the whole "we love the dining plan because then we can order what we want to and not worry about the cost" thing because, well, you have already paid a VERY high (IMO) cost for the plan. And, as has been stated many times, you have to compare the cost of the plan to what you really would buy vs. what you did buy on the plan (mega appetizers and desserts!) I don't think it would be worth it for us, but I am obviously in the minority (most folks are not paying for 4 kids, 3 of whom are considered "adults" but no way eat what an adult usually can.)
I agree, for the most part. I'm one of those who advocate using what you
really would buy when evaluating DDP -- whether you're talking about "free" DDP or paid. To just compare the $37.99 per day to your receipts may make you feel good after the fact, but I don't think that's a sound way to make a purchasing decision.
I can actually think of three reasons for getting the dining plan.
One is if the numbers work, and that depends on the composition of your family and your normal eating habits. We have 2 adults and DD4, and we always do either a nice dinner or a character meal each day. For us, the numbers work, although DDP does not offer us what I would consider a
huge savings over our normal food cost. If I used your family with our dining habits, I doubt very seriously whether the numbers would work because of the ages of your children.
Another way I think the plan works is for folks who don't currently eat a lot of expensive Disney meals, but who would enjoy some nice dinners and character meals. For many, the DDP is not so much about saving money, but about broadening their horizons and enjoying some restaurants they have never tried. That's a good rationale for using DDP, IMHO, even if it does cost you a little more.
And the final way is the convenience of the DDP. I wouldn't pay a lot
extra for the convenience, but it
IS way less stressful than biting my lip every time Girlie wants an ice cream, or wondering if I
really need the twin lobster tails at Capn Jacks.

It does take some pressure off, no doubt about that...and I can see that being an important plus for many.
The biggest thing I think people should realize about DDP is that it is not designed for every single combination and permutation of families, vacation schedules, and dining habits. It is what it is, and if that fits your situation, great!
I see a lot of people trying to twist the plan to fit some unique situation they have on this particular trip, or manipulate their vacation plans around to fit a plan that doesn't fit them. Sometimes you don't know whether to laugh or cry at some of these situations, but the right answer for most of those folks is very simple -- don't get the plan, it doesn't fit your particular situation.