My mom had just turned 18 and my dad was almost 19. I was a bit of an "oops". They married a few months before I was born, on the condition that my mom graduated high school, which she did. She had 2 more kids with my dad and they divorced when I was 12. She put herself through school and now is a top level manager in a very large company. My mom always stressed to me to NOT get into the same predicament she did and to travel before having kids, advice I heeded, but unfortunately I was only able to have one child (he is the product of my 5th pregnancy... I had an ectopic pregnancy and miscarried 3 others and am unable to have more). In a way, I wish I had started sooner since I always wanted at least 2 kids, but I ended up with my stepson in my life, so it worked out!