Our of curiousity do others consider "vacation" visiting family our of state?

however that probably does account for most of our "long weekend trips"
I don't, although I enjoy visiting my family. It's a break and it stimulates my mind in some of the same ways, but it isn't relaxing in the same way as a vacation.
I've heard people say that visiting Disney isn't a vacation, and with the people IRL I've heard say it, I can understand the logic behind saying that. My childhood family vacations were much like many people's
Disney vacations, where the goal of whoever's in charge seems to be to "get good use of my money" by doing everything possible. When I was a kid we'd usually rebel at some point and insist my dad either give us a day off or stop somewhere we found interesting that wasn't on the agenda, which latter are some of my more positive vacation memories.
Oddly enough, one of the few places where dad *wasn't* doing the "Rush Rush Hurry Hurry Quit Dawdling" thing on a vacation was
DisneyLand, where he seemed to think that once he'd gotten us into the park his job was done, so we could do as we pleased. Unfortunately he didn't hand out maps or anything, either, and I had no real idea how to cope with that sort of situation, so while I went on a couple of rides that I enjoyed and all, my clearest memory of DisneyLand is wandering around feeling bored and wondering when we were going to get out of there. Which is more comfortable than being rushed around being bored, but apparently the guy just couldn't win when it came to me.
