We don't necessarily do the parks "commando" style, in that we don't have any preset plans or anything like that, don't even make any PS's until we get down there and get settled. But we do spend our entire days at the parks. We have been the last 2 years, with a DS7 and DD4 and then the next year a DS8 and DD5, and they wouldn't want to come back to the room during the day. They would feel that would be a waste of time. They do like to swim, but they are happy just doing that at night when we get back, often 8 or 9 PM. And then they sleep well at night, and are ready to go the next morning.
So we spend about 8-10 hours in our room, depending on when we leave each morning and when we get back in each night, and we do eat a quick breakfast (breakfast bars or cold cereal or something like that) in our rooms each morning, to save both time and $$$.
So the category of hotel is really not a consideration for us, since we're not there enough to enjoy it. We may try a Mod one year, just to see what it's like or maybe to have a pool slide, but I don't see us spending the money to do Deluxe when we're never there!