I think my Mom wants to go with the flow. I feel that if I plan really well and have a schedule of sorts then we could see and do more while we are there.
These are NOT mutually exclusive strategies. Planning out the first 2-3 hours of each day (& the highlights like Aladdin & the Fireworks) allows a family to "go with the flow" during typically unproductive (afternoon/early evening) hours.
My feelings are that this is more of a once in a lifetime kind of trip. I have 5 kids but I'm planning to take my little ones when they are old enough to ride all the rides in a few years. I'm trying to plan a trip more for the benefit of my big kids who want to ride the big stuff and see it all.
As others have mentioned. Get there EARLY (30 - 40 min. early) each day & have a plan of attack the first 2 hours. Tell the "go with the flow" folks to meet up with you after you've picked up 4 sets of FPs & ridden 8-10 slow loaders those first two hours.
I do plan to go again next summer or later this fall with the little kids. My husband has a heart condition that makes it so he can't go on the rides and he also hates crowds.
Did i mention to GO EARLY to DL before the crowds build?
& as virtually everyone says....park hop (to DCA) when DL starts to build crowds around noon.
I can't take 5 kids to Disneyland by myself LOL. I also think it would be crazy to try to make 5 kids happy when my little ones can't ride or won't.
Where can I find this unofficial guide???
The Guide is good (for background info). Ride Max is good (for making a ride schedule during specific blocks of time). But nothing beats the tips given by HG & others here. Know FP. Get to the parks early each day. Have a plan the first 2.5 - 3 hours each day.
Other random opinions:
- Defiinitely 3 days over 2 days (with preferably 3 full mornings...one of them a MM).
- Get Park hoppers (& plan to park hop to DCA each day when DL starts to get crowded).
- 5 (out of 8) of DLR's E Ticket attractions & events are in DCA (& some cute stuff that isn't E ticket but worth doing).....get park hoppers!
- Keep the "plans" to yourself. Guide those who want to ride where they need to be. Let the stragglers sit & rest....or meet up with them after the important first 2.5 hours.
- Plan a mid day rest each day if you're starting early (& you SHOULD start early). Either at the motel or rest in the GCH lobby for an hour.
- Have a map out while you read the tip threads. Your head hurts now, but after reading a HG or DLR 29 (or others) plan (or strategy) for the second or third time with a map, it starts to make sense.
Here are some tip threads & opinions that i posted in a similar thread a week ago:
HydroGuy's DLR for the WDW veteran tip thread.
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1478699
Also, lots of good info for the WDW vet in Mary Jo's tip thread:
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=802084
& KNOW THESE FP THREADS:
"Getting the Most Out of FastPass During High Season"
www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=885132
"FastPass for Dummies and Smarties - A Photographic Explanation"
www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1186052
"Which Fast Pass First?"
www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1107718 (see my post #4 in that thread)
"Strategies For Using DL and DCA Opening Time Differences to Collect More Fastpasses"
www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1553197
"Why I Park Hop"
http://www.disboards.com/showthread.php?t=1491961
& read the rest of HG's tip threads as well.
Also, the first page of my trip report might be helpful. (linked in my signature below). Probably best to have a DLR map handy when reading all tip threads. After reading many of these tip threads you'll get an idea how easy it is to Park Hop between the parks and also to slip into DTD or the GCH for a little break.....& you never have to get on a stinkin' bus!!
After you read the above tip threads (with a map in front of you) 2-3 times & it starts to make sense....then do the following:
Plug in one event (Aladdin, Fireworks etc.) & one late morning or late afternoon meal
per day. Then do a plan for the first 2.5 - 3 hours of EACH of the three mornings that you're visiting. (You did decide on three days..... right?)

). Then post your plans here & we'll critique.
Have a plan each morning. Smell the roses & go with the flow each afternoon. Have 3-5 FPs in your pocket each evening.
Have a great time planning a visit to Walt's Park.
