Okay, I'm *not* a SAHM but I hope I can still answer because there are days that I do stay home.
I try so hard, on those days, just to "let myself go" but I can't. I faced it a long time ago that I'm not one of those "natural beauties."

I am attractive enough, but I require help. For instance, I have a short, layered hairstyle and I use hair products. When I get up in the morning, because of my cut and what is in my hair, it is standing STRAIGHT UP!! There is no way that I can just not do it. It won't even comb down. I'd love to be able to just put my hair in a ponytail.
Second, I have very dry, sensitive skin and it is red and splotchy often. When I wake up, my skin is very dry and tight (even when I go to bed with cream on it--gues it wipes off). So, I have to clean up and get my face in order.
Believe me, it is a pain in the butt to do all this. I'm fortunate that I can get it all done (shower, hair, makeup) in under 30 minutes, but sometimes it gets so old. I envy those women who show up at the school with their warm-up suits on and their ponytails and look great (but not all of them do).
