We do a lot - try to do get 1 per day if we can. Several reasons for this:
1. We don't eat out a lot because 2 of us have Celiac disease (no gluten) so when we get the chance we do it up as big as we can.
2. The character meals feel like you are doing an event or special experience. More than just a meal. But it doesn't cost any more than a regular
DDP meal so it seems free (not to be confused with
Free Dining which is apparently a hot topic these days on the DIS-let's not go there).
3. I know some people feel that a lot of long character meals takes away from time in the parks but we find that the forced rest helps us stay at the park longer. I know going back to the hotel is popular but we feel like we get a similar break without having to spend time travelling back and forth.
4. We waste NO, and I mean NO, time in line in the parks waiting to see characters. Usually my kids won't even ask because they know the drill by now but my usual response is "we'll see ____ at dinner tomorrow" or "you just saw _____yesterday at lunch."
Our trip in Nov will include:
Ohana breakfast - loved it last March!
Park Faire 1900 dinner - again, loved it. Characters were outstanding.
CRT - better for breakfast, especially pre-park opening, but want to do BBB then CRT so dinner it is.
Crystal Palace - not my favorite but the kids loved it. Great spot for a break.
Chef Mickey - another one that I don't have great memories of but probably due to more to my personal stress level at that point than anything at the restaurant. Kids remember liking it.
Tusker House - never done it so giving it a whirl.
The only one we've done that I would not recommend is the one in Epcot at the Land Pavilion (name escapes me right now). The characters and food were ok it just felt like such an odd/tight layout for our large group that it wasn't as enjoyable. For the record: 4 kids ages 3-11.