pixiefairy
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Apr 9, 2008
Back when I was dating my DH..my eldest son was nearly 2. I had dated since my break up with my ex, but I didn't really involve my son in those dates. I didn't want to confuse him, as he was already being shuttled back and forth between my house and his dad's.
When I met my future DH, there was a very quick connection, and he was aware I had a son. Still, didn't involve him at first. After a few months of serious dating, I introduced them. My son about a month from turning 2, and when I introduced them, he yanked DH down to his level to "talk" to him. They bonded pretty quickly, and my inlaws took him in like he'd been there all along. The rest is history.
OP..if you have been dating for a year, I'd definitely introduce them at this point. Ultimately, it's your life and your decision to make, but I wish you well.
When I met my future DH, there was a very quick connection, and he was aware I had a son. Still, didn't involve him at first. After a few months of serious dating, I introduced them. My son about a month from turning 2, and when I introduced them, he yanked DH down to his level to "talk" to him. They bonded pretty quickly, and my inlaws took him in like he'd been there all along. The rest is history.
OP..if you have been dating for a year, I'd definitely introduce them at this point. Ultimately, it's your life and your decision to make, but I wish you well.