I try to be honest in life and on the internet. But the net is different than real life because we don't have to tell everything about ourselves. I tend to hate talking about bad things that happen to me or my loved ones for a while. Something terrible can happen in my life, with devistating consequences, and I will post about what color shoes I'm wearing or whether I'm alergic to anything or something inconsequential like that. After a few weeks I'm ready to talk about the situation and with my friends IRL I will talk about it but usually not with my friends on the DIS (ok, there is one DIS'er that tends to hear stuff as it happens but that's the exception) because so much time has passed that it seems silly to bring it up then.
The result is that the Keli you guys see isn't the full picture. If that makes me dishonest then that's what I am but I think it's more just the difference IRL and the net.