It has been years (18) since I have been to
Disneyland and I am looking for advice/suggestions on our plan.
We have 2 young daughters 2 1/2 and 6. We are also bringing along both sets of grandparents.
We have rented a beautiful house very close to Disney and also have a rental car booked. We plan to take a break at the house each afternoon.
We arrive March 19th late and leave on the 26th. We have 5 day park hoppers and are also doing a day at Knotts.
Here is our plan so far (no reservation can be made yet):
Sunday- Knotts
Monday- Disney
Tuesday-Disney (Use our MM and then have breakfast at Minnie's at 10:00am)
Wednesday-Disney (Lunch at Ariel's Grotto in CA at 11:30)
Thursday- CA (picnic lunch and WOC)
Friday- Disney
I am a little worried about the girls being up late to see fireworks, Fantasmic, WOC etc. and then being up so early in the morning, but I know it is important to be there first thing.
We will do breakfast at the house, lunch in the parks, and the supper at the house before heading back to the parks for the evening.
Any suggestions/comments would be greatly appreciated!
IMO...this is crazy!
I'm a 25+ year veteran and would never attempt to do 4 days in a row on top of leaving the parks mid day, especially with young children.
I don't see a day of rest in here??? This is a vacation after all
Also, have you checked Disney's website for park schedules? I'm not sure if they have mid March up yet, but the 1st week of March is pretty lean. Earlier park closures and NO Fantasmic, WOC, parades, etc. Yikes!
I would most definately suggest using your MM for your first day in the parks. I'm assuming you are heading straight to Fantasyland since you have younger kids, right?
Perhaps instead of leaving mid day, just make your day shorter? So get in at park opening (which is the best time of day for visiting!), have lunch and leave by 2-3pm. Now you wouldn't want to do this everyday but at least 1-2days. That way you can have some much needed downtime, away from the parks. Or come into the parks after naptime, say around 3-4pm and stay until midnight closing, provided Disney will be staying open that late during your visit.
Your children will burn out (if they are anything like my DS) and probably be on overload, so will need some downtime as much as the adults. I'm not sure if your house will have a pool, but this is almost as big a part of our trip as Disney itself. When I ask my almost 6 year old son what his favorite things are, he always lists swimming at the waterpark at the HoJo's as his #1. So I suggest you don't underestimate the value in this!
I've also learned to relax a bit and not to overschedule. With a young child, this lesson has been essential for me! I also start the day out with a general goal of what I want to see or do that day and I never have more then one goal. For example, "today we are going to see WOC", or "today we are using our MM for Fantasyland" or "today we are doing our character breakfast". Personally, I've found that more then one goal can lead to extra stress for me and then leave me upset when we don't accomplish all those goals. Can you tell I'm a planner?
I mean, let's say you use your MM, visit Fantasyland but your kids fall in LOVE with Dumbo and want to ride it over and over. Do you really want to say, "sorry kids, we have to leave to make our breakfast reservation at 10am" and thus deal with this upset that comes with that?? This type of thing happened more times then I can count on DS's first trip to Disney. It left me feeling upset that I put in all that time planning only to have plans change, left DS sad that Mommy wouldn't let him ride his favorite rides and all of us a bit tired and cranky.
On our last trip, DS fell in LOVE with Big Thunder and I kid you not, rode it 8 times in a row. Big thanks go to DH for riding with him all those times!

This type of thing would not have been possible if I had a busy schedule planned. Maybe someday, when DS is a little older, I can try for more then one goal per day...or maybe we will just continue as we are...but my point is, that you never really know what your kids reactions will be until you get there. It's a vacation for all of you, so make time to relax (if you're like me you have to actually plan relaxation time!) and listen to what each person whats to do and be flexible- you'll have much more fun that way!
I would also consider taking a break in the middle of your schedule, so Tues/Wed and just do nothing. No parks, no trips, nothing...that is if you haven't bought your park tickets yet....
Since it's been 18 yrs since you last visited, I will tell you that Disneyland is much more difficult and time consuming to actually get into when traveling by car. You used to pull into the parking lot, take the little tram to the front gates and viola, you're in! I even remember a time you could walk directly from the parking lot to the front gates....Not so any longer....it will take you a good 30 mins from the time you park to the time you are actually standing on Main St- possibly longer depending on lines. If you leave mid day, you've lost 1 hour+ just in getting from the parking lot to the main gate, not including time it takes you to drive back and forth to your house. And if the parks are only open until 8pm on the days you're visiting, that's precious time lost!
Good luck to you! It's SO exciting taking your kids for the first time, almost like seeing it for the first time yourself....