Teaching the kids to be manipulative early on, I see. You in sales? I guess anything is ok if one "scores" something of monetary value. Feigning interest and concern for others for cash works for some, I guess.
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It's a people skill and i am so happy i am teaching my child this. It means she will have a leg up on other children not taight this skill.
You said....everyone in the world is trying to get a leg up on someone...it's part of the world we live. Weather your the president of the untied states, a waitress, or an average business person. People skills are part of life.
If I dont teach her to get the upper hand, it just means someone will get it on her.
How good a parent will i be, when she calls me one day saying she paid $5,000 over sticker on the car she just bought because the salesman said it was a popular model and it was required.
Come down off your high moral horse and tune back into the real world.