I have to agree about staying off-site.. Contrary to what some might have you believe, the "magic" of Disney isn't in the resorts - it's in the parks.. For me in particular, it's standing on Main Street, looking straight ahead to Cinderella's Castle.. Watching the absolute joy in the eyes of the little ones when they see Mickey or Minnie or Cinderella for the very first time.. The fireworks over Cinderella's Castle - and TinkerBell in flight.. Having the parade stop right in front of you - and Dopey coming over to take your little one by the hand to walk in the parade for a bit.. The CM that "pins" your little one - and announces it's a "Magical Moment".. That's the TRUE magic of Disney!!
On our last trip we were able to stay for two weeks - and not only did we spend 6 days enjoying Disney World, but also a day at Universal Studios and a day at Sea World as well.. Actually, we also had tickets to Islands Of Adventure too, but due to the weather (a tropical storm that reeked havoc and kept us inside for an entire day) and world events (the tragedy of 9/11, that forced us to drive home as opposed to flyng back home) we "lost" two days of our trip and couldn't fit everything in.. We were able to shop for souveniers (many of which were purchased for a song and a dance at the Disney outlet stores) - spend an evening in Old Town - participate in two character meals in Disney World - have professional photos taken in both the Magic Kingdom and Sea World - and in general, just do as we pleased - all because we opted to stay OFF-SITE as opposed to on-site..
Lodging is a big chunk of your budget so please don't feel pressured to stay on-site with the thoughts that you're going to "miss the magic" if you don't.. Millions of people stay off-site and never feel as though they have missed a thing..
Good luck - and I hope you get there real soon!!

On our last trip we were able to stay for two weeks - and not only did we spend 6 days enjoying Disney World, but also a day at Universal Studios and a day at Sea World as well.. Actually, we also had tickets to Islands Of Adventure too, but due to the weather (a tropical storm that reeked havoc and kept us inside for an entire day) and world events (the tragedy of 9/11, that forced us to drive home as opposed to flyng back home) we "lost" two days of our trip and couldn't fit everything in.. We were able to shop for souveniers (many of which were purchased for a song and a dance at the Disney outlet stores) - spend an evening in Old Town - participate in two character meals in Disney World - have professional photos taken in both the Magic Kingdom and Sea World - and in general, just do as we pleased - all because we opted to stay OFF-SITE as opposed to on-site..
Lodging is a big chunk of your budget so please don't feel pressured to stay on-site with the thoughts that you're going to "miss the magic" if you don't.. Millions of people stay off-site and never feel as though they have missed a thing..
Good luck - and I hope you get there real soon!!
