I realize that dental school admissions and medical admissions aren't the same, but they do share similarities.
In my son's experience, schools are looking for a well-rounded student. Over and over the question was, "How do you spend your time?" DS had a GPA of 3.6 (good, but not stellar,) worked in a very prestigious lab and held a leadership position in his fraternity. But what did 3 out of his 4 interviews focus on? The fact that he became a Penn State cheerleader on a dare and followed it through for two years. Why did they focus on that? Because it set him apart and showed his ability to manage his time.
Also, never underestimate good interview skills!
Edie
Wow....your son sounds like he did an amazing job in college. Hopefully this boy will have some good things to add to his resume. But since he has to pay for 20% of his tuition, all of his books, and if he moves out (and he wants to) his living expenses....he will most likely be working so much he won't have all of those 'extras' to add to his resume. Right now he basically goes to work, goes to school, studies, and then spends time with my DD. No time for anything else. And right now he is living at home, if he does move out and has to work more hours I really don't know how he will fit it all in.
But I wish he would do more 'extra' stuff. I wish my DD would do more 'extra' stuff. My other DD seems to "get it" that it isn't just the degree it is the "what else' that gets you hired or whatever. So she is getting involved with things and has some 'interesting' jobs to add to her resume. I am hoping my other DD matures a bit more SOON and picks it up in her Sophomore year.
As for the boy, I think he WOULD get involved in more things IF he didn't have to make so much money to cover expenses. But you do what you have to do.