Oh I guess I am trying to say that I know it is up to him and he needs to figure it out what is best for him. I know he wants to be a doctor and I wish him the best. But what bothers me, is my DD told me he is now planning to join the military to pay for medical school BUT he does NOT want to do this. And I am hoping he has other options and I hope the school works with students to give him advice. I do not know enough about this field to be able to give good advice. If he wanted a PhD or masters degree in something like business or social sciences.....that my DH and I understand. But medical school is something we do not know about.....and how the military works in regards to helping you get that degree....we do not know, but what I do know is that if you are only joining to get the medical degree and you do not want to be in the military, it seems like you will not be a happy person during those years. For some, they want to do this. I have a friend whose son was very excited to join the Navy and is in it now and loves it. And for him, I am very happy. But for this boy, who says he doesn't want to be in the military but sees it as his only option to get a medical degree...I hope he has other options.