How Do I Get The Magic Back?

mickeyfan827

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Hey everyone...my family and i just came back from a convention at Orlando. We visited the parks while we were there. One day at Epcot, one at Magic Kingdom. I always love the parks and we go for a family vacation every August for 10 days, we are also DVC members...home base Bay Lake Tower. Maybe because it was a business trip, or maybe it was the wet cold weather, our that it was just two days, but i did not feel the magic. This is the first time i ever felt this way. For some reason, the cast members didn't seem as friendly, neither did the guests. It was also really crowded. When i got home i was in a funk for days. I didn't know why until my husband said, Do you think you were disappointed by Disney? I never thought that i could feel that way, but that was it. It made me feel so sad. I want the magic back!!!! If anyone can give me advice and encouragement, or share their feelings, that would be great. Did anyone else feel that way, did you get over it?
 
Hey everyone...my family and i just came back from a convention at Orlando. We visited the parks while we were there. One day at Epcot, one at Magic Kingdom. I always love the parks and we go for a family vacation every August for 10 days, we are also DVC members...home base Bay Lake Tower. Maybe because it was a business trip, or maybe it was the wet cold weather, our that it was just two days, but i did not feel the magic. This is the first time i ever felt this way. For some reason, the cast members didn't seem as friendly, neither did the guests. It was also really crowded. When i got home i was in a funk for days. I didn't know why until my husband said, Do you think you were disappointed by Disney? I never thought that i could feel that way, but that was it. It made me feel so sad. I want the magic back!!!! If anyone can give me advice and encouragement, or share their feelings, that would be great. Did anyone else feel that way, did you get over it?

Sorry to hear you have the blues about Disney and I don't really have any suggestions. (Well, maybe one; do you have pictures that you can look at to help remind you of the good times you've enjoyed with your family? If so, why not spend some time looking at them). We haven't been to the World since last August. I do know that Disney is in the testing stages of some major changes and the CM's are under a lot of pressure; some experiencing down right mean guests because the new system has many blips and glitches. I am hoping Disney has the new system under control by our next visit otherwise we might be coming home feeling you are now:(
 
Hey everyone...my family and i just came back from a convention at Orlando. We visited the parks while we were there. One day at Epcot, one at Magic Kingdom. I always love the parks and we go for a family vacation every August for 10 days, we are also DVC members...home base Bay Lake Tower. Maybe because it was a business trip, or maybe it was the wet cold weather, our that it was just two days, but i did not feel the magic. This is the first time i ever felt this way. For some reason, the cast members didn't seem as friendly, neither did the guests. It was also really crowded. When i got home i was in a funk for days. I didn't know why until my husband said, Do you think you were disappointed by Disney? I never thought that i could feel that way, but that was it. It made me feel so sad. I want the magic back!!!! If anyone can give me advice and encouragement, or share their feelings, that would be great. Did anyone else feel that way, did you get over it?


This exact thing happened to me after our last trip 2/6 - 2/11. We also are DVC members. I have been to WDW about 20 times and this is the first time I have felt sad, even a little angry, when I got home. I think it was for several reasons. *FP+ is annoying, parks were MUCh more crowded than predicted, but my number one reason was the cast members we dealt with. So many were rude or had a bad attitude. Now, we often run into one or two, but this trip, it was everywhere. Do you suppose they are stressed by all this FP+ mess? Are guests being ruder to them? Is it just a result of all the crowds?

We own two DVC contracts and have decided to sell one. Our trip was that disappointing. I hope you and I go back to Disney and discover this was an aberration. I fear it wasn't.
 
Probably because it was a business trip.

See how you feel after your family trip in August..I'm sure you will have a good time again :goodvibes
 

Last year we had our best Disney trip ever - fantastic start to finish. I had a strong feeling that this year's trip wouldn't live up to it despite my best planning efforts. We had a terrible first night (long story - no one at Disney's fault), then things went really well until nearly the end of the vacation when hubby got sick. The weather turned on us and the spirit completely left the trip. But the Disney CMs we encountered throughout our stay - resorts and parks - were all great and friendly as ever. And we were there 1/31-2/9 so there was some overlap. It was probably an anomaly.

Although I enjoyed a big chunk of our trip, ending on an "off" note definitely changes the feeling or tone of the trip in one's memory. My solution - start planning the next one! That always gets me excited. :)
 
This exact thing happened to me after our last trip 2/6 - 2/11. We also are DVC members. I have been to WDW about 20 times and this is the first time I have felt sad, even a little angry, when I got home. I think it was for several reasons. *FP+ is annoying, parks were MUCh more crowded than predicted, but my number one reason was the cast members we dealt with. So many were rude or had a bad attitude. Now, we often run into one or two, but this trip, it was everywhere. Do you suppose they are stressed by all this FP+ mess? Are guests being ruder to them? Is it just a result of all the crowds?

We own two DVC contracts and have decided to sell one. Our trip was that disappointing. I hope you and I go back to Disney and discover this was an aberration. I fear it wasn't.

I'm right there with you and the OP. We were in Orlando for other reasons but went to Disney 1/31 & 2/1 and they were both such disappointing days. We're annual pass holders who have been going to Disney for 25 years (6 times in the last 1.5 years) so we LOVE Disney but there was no magic this visit. The weather was bad, the crowds were bigger than expected, and the FP+ things was no fun, but the biggest problem was definitely the CMs. They are super stressed with everything because I have never encounter so many uphappy CMs. Instead of running across 1 or 2 grumpy ones, this time we only had 1 or 2 awesome CMs. Unfortunately, there are tons more, but here's an example. For the first time we had a 2.5 yr with us who uses his stroller as a wheelchair. We had the stroller tagged no problem but we had, in total over the 2 days, about 50 CMs chase us down screaming "you can't bring a stroller in the line", "stroller parking is over there", "I'm talking to you with the stroller", etc. Not once did any of them apologize once we pointed out the red tag and this was after we asked at every single entrance if this was where we were suppose to be so we were NEVER anywhere we shouldn't have been. The whole thing makes me very sad. In fact, we were planning another trip for the summer and have decided against that after our experiences this past trip. My family doesn't believe me when I say we're not going, but I'm 2 weeks out from the trip and I still feel this way.

I know none of this is helpful for what the OP asked because I haven't found my magic back yet, but I just wanted you to know that you aren't alone. I think it was just the perfect storm of bad things that made for such a negative experience for us.
 
We haver had many awesome trips,but our last one was a little on the disappointing side. Rain, rain, rain..my DD had a horrible cold the day we landed and it dragged on for a good portion of our 8 days, her boyfriend texted her constantly and accused her of cheating on him while there (REALLY...AT WDW?:furious:), I got the cold on the last 2 days.

I can still appreciate the good parts though (yes we had some!) awesome dinners, laughter, my 9 year old son's wide eyed look when he first walked into WL, my DD still liking to take character pics ( she is 20) even thought she was sick, Starbucks, screaming on ToT and still marveling how much we love it, RnR and how much we love it too, watching the love between my oldest and my youngest and how he looks up to her.

Dig deep and you are sure to find some great stuff that happened and there will be many more:wizard:
 
I have a cousin who is a CM and is routinely working 60-70 hours a week. No wonder they are cranky. Oh, she works directly with FP+.
 
Our last few trips things were not quite the same for our family either. Might be the Disney changes, might be the kids are getting older, might be that we have been there done that to many times.

We are taking a bit of a break this year 2014. Might hit up Disneyland in 2015 before coming back to the world in 2016.
 
I know, for my husband at least, that expectation & attitude make a BIG difference in the overall experience. Over the last 3.5 years he's gone from "OMG I hate Disney and the crowds and lines and its so dirty!" To "oooooo we should meet all the princesses and go see the shows we've missed before!"

As a child he always got taken to the park in the high summer and never made rope drop or had a plan. So the family attitude was pretty much an expectation of disappointment and stress.

I've slowly taught him to look at/for different things: cast member interactions, random Disney magic moments, hitting the E-ticket rides very early and very late in the day... And (this is probably unique to my dorky husband's interest) watching just HOW MUCH work goes into running the whole operation.

Now he starts getting excited about trying new things before the trip, or coming up with ideas to create some Disney magic or bond with cast members... It's been a night and day difference.

Our last visit was a lot of walking in circles and accomplishing very little with some friends we hadn't traveled with before... Having someone veto nearly every idea, be very picking about what to eat & complaining about the walk was rather disheartening, but our 3rd day we split up to do our own things. We spent 6 hours at MK before driving home & he didn't even realize that we hadn't done any rides (only characters, shows and window shopping) until we got home 3 hours later - he was having so much fun just by being in a better mood :)
 
Oh Sazzlyn I cannot agree with you more the CMs chased us constantly we had a stroller as a wheelchair and would lift it to show people and they will still shout and chase us down. What left a bad taste in my mouth was that even when they had been very harsh they were never apologetic once they realised the mistake . This ruined some of the magic for us as it was a few times each and every day without fail. I hope we all get the magic back, I am going to give things another try and be hopeful :)
 
Staying off site takes the magic away for me, too. So does only getting to go a day or two here or there. Put space between now and your next trip. All will be well :)
 
We took our 5 year old son in 1989. It was mid-December. The weather was gorgeous, low crowds, and most of all, we had a fabulous time with our son. Since then, I've been to WDW between 30-40 times and the trips have not been as magical. I have a good time on the trips but there is always a letdown. It isn't even as though I go expecting to replicate the magic. I think my brain just goes there.
 
In my experience, with few exceptions, you take home from each day what you take into each day. External factors absolutely play a part in our enjoyment of each day, but internal factors are at least as important. So relax, think of ways that you could have turned this into a more positive experience, learn something from the experience, and get ready for a GREAT trip in August.

Good luck! :goodvibes
 
OP... I remember I had one spring break trip that just had the wrong vibe the whole time. At the last rest area on the way down my DD3 (at the time) stepped in a doggie pancake that was right on the sidewalk with her fairly new, deeply grooved shoes. That set us back an hour while I tried to clean out the grooves, etc.. Then, as we were taking the turn by the McDonald's by the All Stars a truck pulled into our lane with us in it. I tried to avoid the crash by moving to the right but I went over the curb. I avoided the truck but it caused a gash in my bumper while the truck got off without a scratch even though he was at fault. The story continues on and on with one problem after another.

When we finally got home I discovered the person I had hired to take care of my cat had not done so at all and I was cleaning for hours starting at midnight.

I figured I had tried to go to Disney too soon after my most recent visit and decided to take a longer break before trying again. We waited a full year and things were back to normal.

Some of the problems we had (not mentioned here) were Disney's fault but most were not. Sometimes the timing is just not right.

It doesn't mean the magic has to be over. It's just one of those things. I do feel terribly for the CMs having to deal with the changeover to bands and FP+.

I hope your next trip is just great. My next trip after my very bad trip was perfectly pleasant.
 
Welcome to the Dis. :thumbsup2

That's a tough one to answer, If I could visit MK today for one hour I would jump for joy. But back home I would be bummed.
 
I didn't read all the replies, but I have a hunch you are feeling that way because you are one who likes to be immersed in the Disney experience and aren't suited to sneaking over to the parks for a couple days on a work trip. I feel very strongly the same way.

DD does competition dance, and she is always hoping her company will go to nationals in Orlando. NOT ME!! On the one hand, I want to go to Disney as often as possible. But on the other hand, I have no interest in splitting my Disney time with any other activity. I know I wouldn't be happy to be at the dance competition, and then when I was at the parks I wouldn't be happy that I wasn't there for my DISNEY VACATION!

See how you feel after your next actual vacation. I bet it will be all better!
 
Our last visit was a lot of walking in circles and accomplishing very little with some friends we hadn't traveled with before... Having someone veto nearly every idea, be very picking about what to eat & complaining about the walk was rather disheartening, but our 3rd day we split up to do our own things. We spent 6 hours at MK before driving home & he didn't even realize that we hadn't done any rides (only characters, shows and window shopping) until we got home 3 hours later - he was having so much fun just by being in a better mood :)

This is our experience every time we go with friends who have never been. We just know on these visits that we have to change our expectations. It can be an overwhelming place to first-timers.

I feel the same about managing my own expectations and perspective. Maybe it's just me but I don't have very many expectations. We'll be in Florida where the weather is mostly good (we live in an often cloudy, dreary, rainy place so even some sun is a nice change for us), we'll be in a beautiful hotel, with good food, and parks that have so much to see including, but limited to all the rides. But, most of all, I won't be working, cleaning my house, grocery shopping, helping with homework, and dealing with the stresses of every day life. I am so darn lucky to get to go to Disney and I always try to keep this in mind even when I encounter less than magical elements on vacation.

OP, it was probably just the weather, short trip and focus on other things besides vacationing that made it less than magical. It doesn't help to encounter grumpy cast members either but they are human too and the weather probably affects them as much as it does the rest of us. Sending good vibes for your next vacation where ever it may be.
 
*FP+ is annoying, parks were MUCh more crowded than predicted, but my number one reason was the cast members we dealt with. So many were rude or had a bad attitude. Now, we often run into one or two, but this trip, it was everywhere. Do you suppose they are stressed by all this FP+ mess? Are guests being ruder to them? Is it just a result of all the crowds?

WDW is going through what is effectively a Go Live for a major ($1billion+)change. I work in IT. Go Live is NEVER easy.

Something like this is the perfect storm...
A new system which not every CM is completely well versed in because it's new.

The new system has bugs, because every new system does.

The bugs annoy the guests who are paying a lot of money for their expected perfection of a Disney vacation, so when perfection is not achieved they get cranky and take it out on the CMs.

The CMs, getting ragged on by thousands of people are, quite understandably, on edge and cranky.

Plus we must remember that CMs are also being pulled from current society, and so many of them have not been criticizd or had to deal with people being unhappy with them, so they have less tolerance for and knowledge of how to deal with negative interactions.

I think the one big mistake WDW has made is not impressing upon the CMs that during this Go Live period, don't argue with a guest if they can show you reasonably well that they are attempting to use the system as it is designed to be used.

When we were there in January, we had several instances in our travelling group where the MDE/MB/FP+ thing wasn't in sync. One example....One family had mother, father, 3 young (under age 12) children. Staying onsite. Going to get on a ride with their FP. Mother, father and 2 of 3 children had no problem with their MB/FP+ working. Their youngest child's MB/FP+ didn't show that he had a FP. The father showed the FP reservation on MDE, which included all 5 family members. The CM continued with "If his band doesn't have the FP on it then he doesn't have the FP". The father says "Why would I make FPs for 2 of my 3 children?". CM says "I have no idea but if his band doesn't have FP on it then he has no FP". This went back and forth until finally our friend said "Find me someone who can rectify this because it seems that you can't". At that point, the CM let them through. Now realistically, to me that was a frustrated CM "breaking it off" on someone because 5000 people had probably "broken it off" on the CM that day. But in the grand scheme of the issue, once our friends showed an appropriate reservation on MDE which showed ALL names on the FP, the conversation should have ended. The CM should have said "Thank you for showing that to me. I apologize for the inconveneinec while we work out the bugs in the new system. I'm going to make note of this issue so we can look into it". Even if he wasn't go ing to make note and even if no one had any desire to look into it, just say ot for crying out loud. Instead the CM left a guest with a bad taste in their mouth for no good reason.

I am fairly certain that if the CMs were not approaching interactions with guests as if the guests were trying to rip off WDW or game the system, then even with the bugs and kinks, there'd be a lot less frustration.

And for those of us who are guests, we would do well to remember that the CMs are not the ones who made the decision to start this debacle, so we should try not to take it out on them when it doesn't work right. I had a 5 hour continuous event with MDE/MB/FP+ not working completely properly in one aspect or another. As frustrated as I was, I made sure not to take it out on the CMs who were genuinely trying to help me.
 
It made me feel so sad. I want the magic back!!!! If anyone can give me advice and encouragement, or share their feelings, that would be great. Did anyone else feel that way, did you get over it?
Go see your doctor. For the cost of the office visit and a prescription for Class III drugs, you can get your happiness back... :rolleyes1
 


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