Looking at going from 12/28/08-1/2/09. How bad will it be?
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We will have children ranging from 4 to 14 years old with us. Thanks for your help.
We just went Dec 30 - Jan 2 and plan to do the same this year. Our secret was to do the evening EMHs. Dec 30 (Sunday) Magic Kingdom had two spectromagics, two fireworks shows (including a preview of the NYE fireworks) and was open until 4am with EMH.
We started out for the parks around 5pm that day. Went to MGM first and saw Osborne Lights. Then we took in the GMR and hopped to MK. (Bus there only takes you to the TTC so we rode the ferry in.) We got a picnic spot before the castle, ate and watched the preview NYE fireworks. After we got our wristbands and went on the following rides: POTC, Haunted Mansion, Small World, Peter Pan, Dumbo, Cindy's Carousel and Laugh Factory. (Coulda done Buzz but I didn't trust my aim at that point.)
NYE we went over to EPCOT for the early bird 7:30pm fireworks. Got our spot about 30-50 minutes before. Then after the crowd dispersed a bit we went for a walk around the world. Lots of parties and nightlife happening. We left for our resort and watched fireworks at DTD for midnight. Then hopped a bus to MGM for its late night EMH. Traffic was a nightmare so we didn't arrive until 1:30am. We did Star Tours, Muppets and toured an empty Osborne lights were we had a private photo shoot.
Jan 1 was the only day we actually set out during the day. Got to EPCOT around 3pm. All the fastpasses were gone and wait times in the 90-120 minute range. We did Figment then toured the countries (starting with Canada). We rode Maelstrom with about a 30 minute wait. Mexico had a short 10 wait. American Adventure was no wait for our show. By 8:30pm we were done the countries so opted out of Illuminations and headed for Soarin'. The posted wait time was 90 minutes, but we were in and out in an hour. Since that ride usually has a 60+ min wait when I visit in the off-season, I didn't find that too unusual.
So in 3 days we did 7 rides at MK, 4 attractions at MGM, 4 attractions at EPCOT, and saw fireworks three times.
We kept hearing it was monster crowded during the day but by the times we went it was hardly noticeable.
Now our schedule is not little kid friendly. A 4 year old can't handle 2am rides. So you'll want to do the early morning EMHs and FastPass. Stay out of the parks from noon-6pm. Stay far away from MK on NYE. It closes early due to capacity. Watch fireworks from your resort. They are everywhere.