I honestly have only ever had problems with 1 chef with my list of allergies and that was Garden Grill. When we went december 2012, my allergies were:
Peanuts, tree nuts, eggs, shellfish, soy, wheat, oats, sesame, coconut, ginger, mustard, cherries, bananas, broccoli. I also am very sensitive to thyme (can handle tiny amounts) and I have oral allergy syndrome so no raw fruits or vegetables except grapes. In June, dairy was also added to the list.
We've had succes at:
The Wave
Contempo cafe
1900 Park Fare
Citricos
Crystal Palace
The Plaza
Liberty Tree Tavern
Cosmic Rays
Columbia Harbor House
The Turf Club
Artists Palette
POP century food court
AoA food court
Sunshine Seasons
Electric Umbrella
50s Prime Time
Sci Fi Cafe
Studio Catering Company
POR food court
All I do for TS is when I check in, make sure I have allergies marked down. If the server doesn't say anything when they come to the table I remind them and they get the chef. The chef comes and I hand them the list (and it's always the same reaction....WOW!) and than we go over what I can eat. The chefs I've met always seem to enjoy this challenge!
If it's a buffet, they take me through the line and tell me what is safe or what can be made safe (ex: salmon at CP without the aioli on top) and they get me fresh food from the back. If its a menu, they ask me what on the menu I am interested in and they determine if they can make it safe. And they have always been willing to cook any vegetable they have to replace un safe sides (so potatoes for pasta, cooked veggies instead of raw, etc).
I do always check the menus ahead of time to make sure there is something that can be made safe on th menu even if that just means steak and fries or chicken and fries.
At QS, I tell th I have allergies and they always get the manager/supervisor. At park QS places, they get the binder and find something possible. Nothing perpared as is has ever been 100% safe for me but they have always been willing to make something safe as long as they have the ingredients (I've gotten burgers or chicken sandwiches with no bun, fries or grapes instead of mashed potatoes, cooked veggies instead of fresh, etc). At the resort QS meals, for breakfast I always get the Mickey waffles. For meals I usually get the chicken tenders and fries but at every place they've often offered grilled chicken, deconstructed burgers (no bun), GF pasta (if they have it), cooked veggies, etc. if they have the item in the back they've always been willing to cook it in a way safe for me.
Honestly, except for garden grill, I've never left a restaurant hungry, and again, except for garden grill, I've never had a reaction. A lot of times the number of choices is minimal. Some places I've only been often a couple of options, but for me that's never been an issue. I'm happy as long as they have 1 option they can make safe for me. I've never gotten what I would consider a "cool" allergy meal. Just regular food made safe. I'm just extraordinarily happy that I can go somewhere for a week and not have to cook!
I don't think I'm doing anything different than you are. The chefs always seem so willing to talk to me about my allergies and they are always very happy when they come back out at the end and see that I am happy, full, and most importantly....no reaction! Maybe ve just gotten lucky, maybe it's something else...I'm really not sure.
But I've also never be charged extra for an allergy meal and I've actually gotten a couple of QS meals for free or discounted because of long waits. But I really don't know what I'm doing different than anyone else.
