Whew! I finally made it through your PTR!!! It has taken me the better part of the evening here at work, so thanks for helping me pass the time!
First, let me say I hope your father is doing better. I can only imagine how difficult it must be. I'll keep my fingers crossed!
Your plans sound great so far! Here's what I would keep in mind, having just experienced this phenomenon in December- kids like to screw with your plans. My son turns 3 in April so he is younger then Max, but he became very assertive on this last trip. If he didn't want to do something, he made sure he let us (and everyone in the vicinity) know. Wemissed out on several things due to his fits, and they didn't make any sense. He LOVES Toy Story, but when it came time to ride TSM again, he didn't want to. We made him and he cried the whole way through, and after wanted to ride again... there were of course no FP's available and the wait was around 2 hours. My opinion, go with the flow. Especially if you know this won't be your last trip there, don't force anything. Naps are helpful as well. I found it really strange that he acted this way in December since when he and I went alone in September he was much more agreeable. I later realized that in September Jack got a lot more sleep and our schedule was much less rigid. Food for thought!
I also wanted to say that picture of Max in his new bed made me laugh. Jack does the exact same thing with all his cars, (he has a bunch of the Cars ones as well as the Toy Story 3 ones) where he lines them all up on the side.
Yay for the Tusker House breakfast! It was great! Except for the part where thye try to make you pay $30 for your pictures with Donald (we made them take one with our camera) since they won't put it on your Photopass card.
As for potty training, I totally agree, it just happens. Some kids (girls) start way earlier. I tried to start with Jack shortly after his second birthday and it didn't take. He would go on the potty, but nowhere near consistently enough to take him out of pullups. I decided to hold off until after our trip in December and the starting in January, I switched him to underpants during the day. I started by setting a timer for every 30 minutes and I made him go, and then within a week he was saying when he needed to go. It's been less than 3 weeks and he almost never has an accident, though I do still put him in pullups at night time. He has stayed dry the past 5 nights at least though so I think next week we will switch to pullups at night too. For him it just seemed like he needed that safety net taken away, and it worked well. I NEVER want to potty train another child though, so I may not have any more kids!