tinacaplan
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Hi! So, again, thanks for all the support you've thrown my way recently. 
Had a rather interesting (I suppose that's the word for it. Perhaps not.) afternoon. It was my best friend's son's first bithday party. There was a seven or eight year-old boy there who was very pushy and not being nice to the pre-school aged kids that were in attendance. Max has also not been feeling great, think it has a lot to do with his adenoids, which are unusually large, as we learned this week. (This involves an upcoming trip to an Ear, Nose, and Throat doctor to see if he will need his tonsils and adenoids removed...apparently, enlarged adenoids can create all sorts of yucky infections.)
Long story short, the older boy ended up punching Max! I was watching and it was completely unprovoked. Max was coming down a small indoor slide that this kid (who was way too old to be playing on something like this anyway) was trying to climb up. This kid actually made a closed fist and punched my son. In my full view!
You have got to be kidding. Max cried and was, I think, more confused by it than anything else. The kid just laughed and thought the whole thing was very amusing. His parents, needless to say, were nowhere to be found. I happen to know them casually and they aren't the nicest people, so I try and steer clear when I see them at these things. Thankfully, they are friends of my best friend's husband, so DBF doesn't like them much, either. In fact, my best friend's father referred to the child as a monster on our way out.
Because I knew my boy was not feeling all that well to begin with, we left about an hour into the party and long before cake was cut. Max was pretty upset about this, but I wasn't sure what else to do. We left without saying anything to the parents.
How would any of you with kids handle a situation like this? I have to say, it hasn't come up yet,as Max plays mostly with kids closer to his own age who might do physical things, but aren't so clear on right and wrong. Was there anything I could have or should have said to the parents?

Had a rather interesting (I suppose that's the word for it. Perhaps not.) afternoon. It was my best friend's son's first bithday party. There was a seven or eight year-old boy there who was very pushy and not being nice to the pre-school aged kids that were in attendance. Max has also not been feeling great, think it has a lot to do with his adenoids, which are unusually large, as we learned this week. (This involves an upcoming trip to an Ear, Nose, and Throat doctor to see if he will need his tonsils and adenoids removed...apparently, enlarged adenoids can create all sorts of yucky infections.)
Long story short, the older boy ended up punching Max! I was watching and it was completely unprovoked. Max was coming down a small indoor slide that this kid (who was way too old to be playing on something like this anyway) was trying to climb up. This kid actually made a closed fist and punched my son. In my full view!

Because I knew my boy was not feeling all that well to begin with, we left about an hour into the party and long before cake was cut. Max was pretty upset about this, but I wasn't sure what else to do. We left without saying anything to the parents.
How would any of you with kids handle a situation like this? I have to say, it hasn't come up yet,as Max plays mostly with kids closer to his own age who might do physical things, but aren't so clear on right and wrong. Was there anything I could have or should have said to the parents?
