GEM said:
Seriously? No shoes left on the front porch?? No windchimes?? Only white non-blinking Christmas lights??
What's the point in owning your own home if it has to be just exactly like every other one on the block? Like I said before, I just don't get it. There's no way I would put up with that kind of stuff. I like my Winnie the Pooh flag and my hummingbird feeder, thank you very much. And, if my neighbor loves the ceramic deer in her front yard, why on earth should I care?
My sister lives in one of those places where all the houses were built at the same time, all from one of several styles, all the blocks look exactly the same, all the landscaping is very tastefully similar, etc. I seriously wonder how she remembers which one is hers . . .
I am right there with you Gem. I do not have interest in living in a Stepford community. IMO, what makes a community feel like 'home' is the blending of different tastes, styles and interests.
Just a little story, if you will:
There are two women that live a few streets away from us and they have a postage sized front yard that they have always decorated (as long as we lived here, 17yrs) with TONS of lawn decorations for every holiday. (I mean All of the holidays)
They put so much stuff in their front yard and on the house that it looks like a carnival with lights and plastic reindeer on the roof, huge "Happy birthday Jesus" signs made of painted plywood. Seriously, so much stuff you could barely see the grass. We would never see them in the process of putting all of the stuff up,. it was sort of a mysterious thing. One day it wasn't there and the next day it was...lit up and in it's tacky, blinking glory. If you saw how much stuff they decorated with, you would understand how weird it was that we never saw them decorating. It looked like it would take days to do.
When I first saw it, I was like "Oh that is so gawdy/tacky" and I remember thinking whoever did that was out of their mind. We always wondered where in the heck they stored all of the decorative 'crap'. Over the years, I sort of got used to it and my kids would look for the decorations to see how much stuff they put up. It started to grow on us, sort of a part of the flavor of the holidays. We then started to look forward to it and it was like a game trying to figure out what was 'new' this year.
And then every time I went by the house I would say "It looks like someone really happy lives there". Because they really go ALL OUT to get festive about every single holiday.
This past Christmas, there were very few decorations in their yard and I wondered what was going on...and then Valentines day came and again, very few decorations. Turns out, a woman and her elderly mother have lived there all these years and the mother recently became very ill and died this spring. It just broke my heart to hear that. Because now I know a sad person lives there.
I really hope to go by and see the decorations up again...all of the tacky plastic 'junk', blinking lights that don't match and glittery dollar store decorations...I really, really want to see that a happy person lives there again.
Just something that this thread reminded me of.