I think a ton of people are afraid of anything thats "processed" but I mean, sugar canes aren't a big straw full of white crystals. Plenty of processing and chemical treatments are done to sugar cane and beet sugar before its suitable for human consumption.
That's a really good point. And makes it so mysterious as to why taking something and processing it MORE would cause such a problem. I think about these things often.
I can't say she's *my* friend, but she's friends with a friend of mine...the woman and her three daughters cannot have corn of ANY kind. They all have frightening, anger-filled reactions to any corn.
I was so glad to realize that DS can have some corn products...
Though I will say personally...I do prefer soda sweetened with sugar, though that can be hard to find.
Glad your doctor doesn't have a reaction and hasn't figured out that some of his patients likely are having reactions as well.
I prefer cane sugar soda as well.
Not sure if Costco's issue with Coke caused them to stop stocking this, but we occasionally buy Mexican-bottled Coke (in glass bottles!) there. It's SO delicious.
Along with Jones (which I hate), Thomas Kemper root beer and their other sodas went back to cane sugar about a year ago.
And of course there are the health food store sodas (but READ the labels b/c some of them are tricky), but those take a long time to get used to, if you're used to the mainstream stuff.
Ok, so a question to those who avoid it, themselves and their families,
How do you handle birthday parties? Do your kids just politely say no thank you? Is it a battle with them, because they can't partake?
DS will be attending his first birthday party tomorrow.

I was willing to bring our own stuff, as the mom said that her son gets a huge treat of a Carvel ice cream cake, and I can't find the ingredients. But she's WELL aware of sensitivities, and this is her son's first proper birthday party and she's going crazy making things lovely...she told me NOT to bring anything, that she will buy something DS can have. I might make/buy a bit of safe cake and put it in a cooler, just in case DS really wants a piece of cake as well...
There are some chocolate candies DS can have, and we focus on those. PLain chocolate is usually fine. Most Reeses peanut butter cups, and some KitKats are OK.
Why "most" and "some"? I wonder the same thing! Some packaging of them shows corn syrup or HFCS. Other packaging of the products does not include that. I have eaten both, and can detect a difference in taste. The stuff with HFCS has a funky taste on the tip of my tongue...almost a sharp taste that isn't good. The stuff without tastes normal. So we have to check every package...and at Halloween when DS might get bite size, we have to buy the "good" stuff and swap it out.
Halloween this year (first year he went properly trick or treating!) was a pain, b/c of that swapping business! But it's all to keep DS (and DH) healthy, so it was worth it.
I myself grew up in a health-food-based house. I know very well that too much limitation without explanation can lead down a bad road. However, I also had a dad who would fill us with junk food and send us home for my mom to deal with the consequences. So donuts, sodas, sugar cereals (and bologna sandwiches)...those all became part of the Super Fun Time at Dad's, while my mom's place was "boring" with homemade meals, vitamins, fruit, veggies (and homemade donuts which were deelish). And mom's was where we "came down" from the dad "food", so we never felt the effects while at dad's...you can see how I ended up wiht the freshman 15, er, 25 when I went away to college!
So we try to let DS be a partner in all of this. He can still remember his reactions from when he was 3, and he remembers hurting me too. He doesn't want to revisit those times. We TALK about why we eat the way we do, and I really hope that he can remember the talks, not just the relative deprivation, though gosh, homemade cake certainly isn't being deprived!
(ha, tell that to my not-so-secret LOVE for Costco cake, LOL, when I grew up with homemade chocolate cake with homemade frosting!).