So sorry for your recent diagnosis! My son was diagnosed at 18 months and is now 8 (in fact we just passed his 7th anniversary of diagnosis on Sept. 10th). You don't say how old your son is. Anyone when first diagnosed, is going to be all over the place because you have not tweaked the routine yet. Even then, if you get 50% of your readings in the range you want you are doing very well. This is not an easy concept for many of us parents (I top the list) because we want to KNOW that when we take a certain action the result will be what we want, but T1D is just not that way. It is a disease that lets you see how complex the innerworkings of our bodies really are.
Also, one word of advice that I wish I had taken to heart when I was told in the beginning. T1D is nothing like T2D. In my experience they are managed very differently, so do what works for your son, not someone else. My son's T1D is nothing like your son's T1D, etc.. My son's BG drops like a rock in the heat and I just met a child who goes sky high in the heat. All this to say that disease is extremely individual - some folks like to use the phrase 'YDMV, Your Diabetes May Vary' and it is SO true. It took me a long time not to judge how I was caring for my son by what other people were doing, etc. It can drive you batty...try not to let it.
Having said that, it WILL get much easier. Whether you feel it now or not, there will even be days that T1D is not part of every thought
Knowing what I know now, I say absolutely go on your trip! I would have been petrified at the time, though. The fact is I was petrified at home too and sometimes I think distraction would have been a good thing. Also, by November, you will more used to his routine and it will feel a bit lees overwhelming.
Our tricks when traveling...
• test often. Children's BG levels can swing pretty widely quickly so you need to be more vigilant. In my opinion it is better to know often than the have a surprise low, which will be hard for all of you
• Carry lots of snacks and glucose tabs. we think granola bars are easy to pack and they are just about 15g, perfect for our son's snack. You will find what you and your son likes to keep on hand pretty quickly.
• Carry double of all of your supplies
HAVE FUN!
You should make T1D fit into your lives, not rule them. If you would like to chat privately at any time, please feel free to PM me.