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We have also loved doing split stays - just check out my signature! We have enjoyed them because kids love swimming in different pools (pool hopping is a pain with young kids), and we love being closer to parks. In the past, it's been rare that our rooms have not been ready at check-in, this trip though, that was not the case, and it made us very crabby and cost us precious time as we had to go back and grocery shop.
We love going to the parks everyday, but we are far from commando. We sometimes have walked into Epcot for 1 hour, or gone to MK for 2 hours, and then back to rest/swim. Having APs is great for this type of touring. For us, the problem has been with my hubby the past few years wanting to make our trips bigger and better! This has caused issues because he has switched resorts, added nights, upgrades, etc. that were not necessary. This trip we had several issues with some of his bright ideas, and it caused friction between us all.
We had a heart to heart talk last night about why we joined
DVC, and he is finally realizing that he has to slow down. If we have 50 years of WDW vacations ahead of us, why do we have to do it all each trip? We have stayed almost everywhere on property, so now, it's time to chill out at 1 or at most 2 resorts, and be done with it!
We do go for 11-13 days each summer as we drive from Canada, and I'm a teacher, so we find that limiting to 1 vacation is more financially sound, and easier on us. We always have our own car, so we can drive as well. Hubby hasn't wanted to drive much the past few years, so we've been split staying based on what parks we are visiting. Worked for a time, but not anymore.
It's interesting to read all of the replies about this subject. For us, we can't imagine doing Disney without the parks (our kids are still young), but since we joined DVC, we limit our hours there, and this works splendidly in the stifling heat as it keeps us rested and refreshed, plus, we like to park hop, and this makes it easier for us as well.
There are so many ways for families to enjoy DVC! Tiger