Helping a non-diser get in the mood (Updated!)

Don't know if you've used it before, but Tour Guide Mike was a huge help for us in avoiding lines.

Also, I hope you've got parkhopper tix - that way you can do MK in the AM until the crowds hit, then go for Epcot, etc.

Seems like if you can keep him from dealing with lines, then he'll be cool. 'magic' may not happen, but happiness is a possibility!
 
Well, here is hoping that someday I can get to see why I enjoy it so much...
 
So, update now that we've gone and been back a couple days...

DH claimed to enjoy it but it's sometimes hard to tell when it's honest enjoyment and "eh, it wasn't bad but I'll say I liked it for your sake." But then I evesdropped in on his conversation with his parents and he spent 20 minutes going on and on about the trip. He told them all about the pavilions in FW, the DDP, fast pass, Disney's Magical Express (they do everything for you!), the wonderful cast members, and more. I think he liked it. :)

I think what worked best was just giving him enough info that he wouldn't be utterly lost (basic explaination of FP, the dif. parks, transportation, and extra magic hours) prior to the trip and letting him have a lot of say (with some expert advice!) when there. We slept in (or at least he did - I was too excited!) and did a lot of eating (DDP helped with that), both of which he consideres musts for vacations. While I'm more a commando at heart, doing WDW in a more relaxed pace for his sake was actually really wonderful for me. I don't feel like I need another vacation like I normally do and I still got to see everything I wanted to see. Or nearly everything. But that's what the next trip is for, right?

DH LOVED AK, especially with the crowds so much lighter than he experienced during his summer trips. We did all the trails and his favorites were the bats and tigers. One tiger came right up to the window to show off for him. He loved it.

In past trips he'd always skipped past the pavilions in FW, thinking it was just the entrance way to the "real" park, WS. So I introduced him to those, since my fave rides (SSE and Land) are there. We got on a sneak peak of SSE and he thought the new AAs were amazing. Personally I liked the new stuff and don't mind the ending, so I'm one of about 1% of former SSE lovers who's not picking up pitchforks. Oh well. Back to DH, we also went on M:S and Soarin' and he still talks about both. He thought the feeling of being shot up in M:S was fantastic and didn't mind the long wait (we had fps for Soarin' and our blackout window was still in effect - besides, it was just 25 min), probably because I brought a small logic puzzle book to work through in lines. He's always wanted to hangglide and so Soarin' was so totally him. He thought it the neatest thing ever. Score. :)

One thing I hadn't even realized is that he initially didn't have a mental catagory for rides that aren't purely thrill. He's grown up with amusement parks and thought that theme parks were the same thing. He kept calling the Disney rides "neat" rides, meaning rides that are neat because of their technology, theming, or what they teach. As a Disney baby (first trip at 4 weeks!) I don't get rides that are purely about thrills and chills (if I want that I'll get my teenage brother to drive me around DC) so I guess it's mutual. It took 2 days or so for him to "get" the rides but once he did he enjoyed them. We also had a fantastic time just wandering around, sitting, and shopping. He even got a ghost Mickey antena topper for his car. :) So in all it was a fun and successful mission. He even asked a few questions about DVCs. We're in grad school so that's not happening anytime soon but just the fact that he asked is pretty exciting.

So, anyway, just wanted to share my excitement and happiness over this baby Disney Dork we have. :)
 
So, update now that we've gone and been back a couple days...

DH claimed to enjoy it but it's sometimes hard to tell when it's honest enjoyment and "eh, it wasn't bad but I'll say I liked it for your sake." But then I evesdropped in on his conversation with his parents and he spent 20 minutes going on and on about the trip. He told them all about the pavilions in FW, the DDP, fast pass, Disney's Magical Express (they do everything for you!), the wonderful cast members, and more. I think he liked it. :)

I think what worked best was just giving him enough info that he wouldn't be utterly lost (basic explaination of FP, the dif. parks, transportation, and extra magic hours) prior to the trip and letting him have a lot of say (with some expert advice!) when there. We slept in (or at least he did - I was too excited!) and did a lot of eating (DDP helped with that), both of which he consideres musts for vacations. While I'm more a commando at heart, doing WDW in a more relaxed pace for his sake was actually really wonderful for me. I don't feel like I need another vacation like I normally do and I still got to see everything I wanted to see. Or nearly everything. But that's what the next trip is for, right?

DH LOVED AK, especially with the crowds so much lighter than he experienced during his summer trips. We did all the trails and his favorites were the bats and tigers. One tiger came right up to the window to show off for him. He loved it.

In past trips he'd always skipped past the pavilions in FW, thinking it was just the entrance way to the "real" park, WS. So I introduced him to those, since my fave rides (SSE and Land) are there. We got on a sneak peak of SSE and he thought the new AAs were amazing. Personally I liked the new stuff and don't mind the ending, so I'm one of about 1% of former SSE lovers who's not picking up pitchforks. Oh well. Back to DH, we also went on M:S and Soarin' and he still talks about both. He thought the feeling of being shot up in M:S was fantastic and didn't mind the long wait (we had fps for Soarin' and our blackout window was still in effect - besides, it was just 25 min), probably because I brought a small logic puzzle book to work through in lines. He's always wanted to hangglide and so Soarin' was so totally him. He thought it the neatest thing ever. Score. :)

One thing I hadn't even realized is that he initially didn't have a mental catagory for rides that aren't purely thrill. He's grown up with amusement parks and thought that theme parks were the same thing. He kept calling the Disney rides "neat" rides, meaning rides that are neat because of their technology, theming, or what they teach. As a Disney baby (first trip at 4 weeks!) I don't get rides that are purely about thrills and chills (if I want that I'll get my teenage brother to drive me around DC) so I guess it's mutual. It took 2 days or so for him to "get" the rides but once he did he enjoyed them. We also had a fantastic time just wandering around, sitting, and shopping. He even got a ghost Mickey antena topper for his car. :) So in all it was a fun and successful mission. He even asked a few questions about DVCs. We're in grad school so that's not happening anytime soon but just the fact that he asked is pretty exciting.

So, anyway, just wanted to share my excitement and happiness over this baby Disney Dork we have. :)

That's great news. I'm glad it worked out. Pretty soon, you will have to change your siggie and that part about DH.
 

Yea!! Another convert!

Thanks for updating -- I hate having discussions like this and then never hearing the result!

My DH always takes awhile after we get back to 'realize' how much fun he had while we were there. Telling other people seems to crystalize his feelings - so that he actually thinks he had a better time 6 months later than he did during the time we were on vacation. Strangeness!

Sounds like your DH is maybe a bit similar?
 
DH used to be very much like that and he probably still is to some degree. H owever, a couple of things made a big difference. For one thing, I went a couple of times solo when he was at his "worst"-just because he didn't want to go didn't mean I couldn't. Well, after I went a couple timesand, after I came back,he heard me talkingto other people about what fun it was, he decided he wanted to go too. Now I still go solo sometimes, and he loves togoandseewhat I can show him(new attractions,resturants, etc.) Also,he discovered he loved staying at OKW and won't stay anywhere else. I'mnot saying it's for everyone(it isn't), but he loved the ability to get away fom the hub-bub. And he travels alot for business, so I should have realized that he'd like someplace less "hotel-y". A few other little things-like he plays golf there more. In return, he goes quite willingly to character meals now.
 
It sounds like the force is strong with him, but he isn't a Jedi yet </Empire Strikes Back>

There is, of course, only one solution. You're just going to have to take him again!

The only problem I think I'll have with my DH is the "suspension of disbelief". He's been working since he was 11 and saved up his allowence/paper route money/whatever since then to buy a car when he got to college. He got it our Junior year (two years ago - brand new Honda Civic), and never even brags about it.:sad2:

So... serious work-a-holic, is DH. He needs a little disney magic to loosen some of those tightly-wound springs!:wizard:

Still... we got married in July, and a delayed Disneymoon is better than none!:woohoo:
 
My DGF is definintely not a fan of WDW. Before we dated I went to WDW for a week plus every year. As a DVC member, we go about twice a year but for a 3 day weekend and we NEVER go the parks... She doesn't like the whole 'immerse yourself in the fantasy' aspect of it and feels terrible for the families that spend a fortune to go there...

I so want to go to the parks again... I've never been on Everest or Soarin... It's the only part of her I wish I could change...


Before I dated my now Hubby, my mom was trying to encourage me to see a guy that "hated disney"....Guess which one I chose??? If I had ended up with him, I would have had to sell my DVC and not gone to WDW at all ever again!!! :scared1: :scared1:

NOW, we go to WDW often and got MARRIED there this Fall! No story better than that.

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