Thanks, geek! Great tips. I can see how you and others suggest that I don't over-research our trip. However, being an engineer, I'm not one that's open to leave out any details. Basically, I want the trip to go as smoothly as possible without any glitches, know what I mean? Anyways, I went to mousesavers.com and planned a mock vacation where I compare pricing between a complete package vs. piecing it together. Granted, this was done for a trip this year so I realize that rates will change for next year. The pricing came out to what you have said. Piecing it together was actually cheaper than a comparable package. On the other hand, a package would make it easier to plan and less of a headache. BTW, do you think rates would be cheaper by going through someone like a
travel agent or
AAA?
i'm married to an engineer so I understand attention to detail! He knows i'm a disney pro with 44 trips under my belt in 33 years and I've booked complete trips three days in advance of leaving in as little as 45 minutes beginning to end! So he is okay with letting me plan LOL.
If you truly do not want to hassle so much with the planning, you likely should use a travel agent. But if you prefer hands on like I do and seeing to every detail, then you can do it yourself!
Here's a couple more tips I just thought of:
Type up a page (or write it down) with what you're looking for in a resort. Killer pools? Ease of transportation? Varied Dining? Or is the hotel mostly a place to shower and sleep before hitting the parks? How many people do you have to fit in the room, do you want only one room (if 5 people or less total).
You should know that all Disney Value/Moderate resorts utilize bus transportation to get around. Unless you stay in a Monorail hotel, you need to figure some travel time in when you're talking about resort dining reservations.
For example: If you're staying at a Value or Moderate and have a dinner ressie for dd's b-day at say, Chef Mickey...you have to take the bus to the MK and then the Monorail to the Contemporary. Be sure when you plan the times of your priority seatings that you figure in bus travel time from the resort to your destination! (if you have a car that's not so much an issue.)
I have not stayed at the All Star Movies, was going to for our next trip but DH is hooked on monorail hotels like I am LOL. But I have stayed in the other 2 Stars. I have heard that Movies has a MUCH more Disney feel to it because of the building theming and all, but it is also usually the most crowded for the same reason.
Another thing you want to check into: If there are any WDW special events happening while you are going to be there. When is your trip? Depending if there are sporting event groups (like the pop warner folks) staying at the All Stars that week, you may want to choose another hotel (sorry, pop people, no offense intended!).
You also may want to make note of nights when certain parks may close early for special events (like the Halloween/Christmas parties in the MK, which you have to buy extra admission for).
Consider the following: (I sound like Bill Nye the Science Guy LOL)
When you're choosing passes, think about which places you are truly likely to visit; if you're not planning on going to the water parks/disneyquest/world of sports on this visit, to get an Ultimate Park Hopper would be a waste of money for your family (they usually want to include those with the packages). So talk to a travel agent about that and/or get out the ol' calculator and think about where you really want to visit during your stay: You may be better off with a regular Hopper ticket. My family never gets ultimates because we just wouldn't use all the stuff that comes with them.
When I say 'don't over-plan,' I definitely do not mean not to have all your travel/accomodations details specified and worked out! I just mean, don't plan so many restaurant ressies and things that you don't allow time for spontaneous things to happen. WDW is like nowhere else on earth, and being on too tight a schedule can cause you to worry and miss out on fun things that just happen when you're taking in the sights.
About room rates: AAA can get you a 15% discount if there is availability when you're traveling (that depends, are you going during Value, Regular, or Holiday season?) sometimes they come out with discount codes that are valid for everyone, like one recently that is enabling us to take a quickly planned trip to WDW this year after all

Those discounts are much deeper, but the thing is you can't plan on them ages in advance. Usually, if there is availability at the resort for the code you want to use, they will let you switch your ressies after you've booked. With a package, the travel agent would have to look into that.
I don't know how it works with packages, if once you've paid you can't switch to a different deal if a better one comes out, maybe someone who reads this thread and has done that can answer to that? I do know that there are a couple specific companies that specialize in WDW vacations (i think one advertises here, one does on another Disney related message board). If you want to let someone else do the planning, a travel agent may be the way to go. Just be sure to get someone who really knows WDW well since you're a first-timer
You didn't mention, are you planning to fly? Drive? Cause there are issues of ground trans. for your family to/from the resort as well if you're not driving that you need to plan for, and we can help you out with ideas there too. But it's really not that bad. A basic bare bones outline for how I plan a trip is this:
1. Plane Tickets
2. Hotel Room
3. Ground Trans
4. Park Tickets
5. Priority Seating reservations for character dining, sit down restaurants/Luau, etc.
6. any special needs (in my case, wheelchair rental)
7. planning envelopes for tipping housekeeping, ground trans. drivers, and bellmen.
If you haven't already gotten the WDW vacation planning materials they can send you, ring them up and get those on the way!

Also, keep your eyes on the travel channel if you have cable because they always have great shows about WDW.
Hope i'm not overwhelming you! I think the biggest decision is if you want to let a travel agent handle it all. If you do, then all you have to do is have your dates, pick a hotel (or narrow it down based on your family's preferences) and then get out your wallet LOL
have fun planning!!!
geek
edited to add: you post about driving around...if you're going to stay on WDW property the whole trip and stay in a WDW resort, there isn't anything on the property that you cannot get to via Disney transportation. It may take more than one form of trans to get you there (ie: bus to Park, Bus/monorail/boat to hotel). But if you're thinking of visiting other theme parks like Universal...you likely want to think about having a car.
We never go off disney property so I can't help you much there LOL. We're happy to stay put
