So, I know Ariel's Grotto is closed now. I have seen her at Askerhaus at the Princess Dinner. I don't know if you can meet her anywhere else now.
I laughed out loud when I saw your post! I totally understand your problem! This is my 4 year old "ladies man":
He LOVES his princesses! His first trip in 2008, we went to Askerhaus and they had Belle, Ariel, Jasmine, Sleeping Beauty. It was probably his FAVORITE character meal. So trip number 2, we went to 1900 Park Fare w/Cinderella and the stepsisters and Cinderella's Royal Table with Cinderella, Belle, Jasmine, Snow White and Sleeping Beauty! He was 3 years old last fall and dead set on meeting Belle! The funniest thing was she came up to him in her blue dress, and he looks at her and asks her where her pretty yellow dress was!

You could tell she was trying not to laugh!


It was so sweet! She came back to our table 2 more times to dance with him!
We'll be going to 1900 Park fare and CRT again this October!

His new FAVORITE if you ask him is Jasmine! He always says "I wuv jasmine!"