Paint the night is just a great show in general, way better than world of color. HOWEVER - if your choice is based on "which of these am I more likely to get a crappy seat?" the answer would be WOC, especially if you have little kids. PTN, if you are willing to wait it out, you can get good seats just by virtue of staking out a seat. WOC is a crapshoot even with fastpass, and you have to stand there forever. I haven't done WOC dessert party but just after reading reviews of the reserved dining package seating vs dessert party, dessert party sounds like it's more worth the money.