I mean the following in a NICE way. Not flaming you at all. If anything, I am seeing the flaws in myself, and chuckling.
I read the PPs battle over DL vs MK, and I thought, isn't that funny how some people have such strong and opposite opinions on things.
Then I read your post. "would your kids really be disappointed about not getting to go trick-or-treating?"
My first thought wasn't even words. It was primal. NO TRICK OR TREATING!?!?!? Then I laughed at myself.
You are right of course. It isn't a big deal, and the alternatives you suggested (dressing up for pirate night, buying candy for home, trick-or-treating in Orlando) are perfectly reasonable, well thought-out alternatives. Plus the kids are on a cruise or at WDW, so how could they complain?
But none of that could over-ride the little light in my head that was still flashing: NO TRICK OR TREATING!?!?!?
My mom always made our costumes and from an early age I really got into it. By the time I was 8 or 10 I would bike around the neighborhood and map out a route with loops so that I could go back to the house periodically and so that I wouldn't cross back past houses I had already done. I did that set of routes for years. Friends would come to my neighborhood to do it with me. We would start right after school and go until we were forced to stop. The costumes, the freedom, the adventure, the candy. I never told any of that to my sons, but they were just as into it as I had been. They still go out now, even though they are in High School. (Don't flame me for that. I tell them it is OK as long as they have good costumes, and if people don't want to give them candy, that's fine.) They just LOVE the process, just as I did.
OK. I'm done laughing at myself. I guess we all have little things that just make so much sense to us, it is hard to see it any other way.