Okay I editted my two posts because I was rambling...
#1. Don't do Westgate. Money isn't everything. I own Westgate, I like it but for $29 who knows where they will put you plus the presentation WILL last at least 3 hours. If you were staying a week I'd say go for it. Four days...not worth it...they will try every unpleasant trick they can to get you to buy and that'll color your vacation. I got a good deal & a pleasant sales guy but that is not the norm...in the end resale would still have been cheaper.
#2. Devious budget trick. You have to eat every day anyway so you can add half your normal food budget for a week into your total.
#3. If you go with a DTD hotel you can get Ultimate Pass Hoppers (UPH). Right now a night at a value resort is available at $128 per night. You can stay at Wyndham Palace for $84. I looked these up. An example of another available package is the Grosvenor which has a 2 night, 2 full breakfasts and 3 days of UPH for a bit over $800. The advantage of UPH is that you can go into ANY park including Disney Quest for the length of your stay (you get it for both check in day and check out day). That means you could easily explore EPCOT and Magic Kingdom without entirely exhausting the kids. And you could get to Animal Kingdom one morning if you wanted to. This is useful because MK is open to 11PM or Midnight during your stay. MGM is open until 8 and EPCOT 9:30.
The Grosvenor number is probably a bit out of reach for you but Mousesavers gave these numbers for UPHs:
1 night/2 days (price at resort) - $137.39 Adults (10 and older); $110.76 Children (3-9)
1 night/2 days (advance purchase price) - $126.74 Adults (10 and older); $102.24 Children (3-9)
2 nights/3 days (price at resort) - $187.44 Adults (10 and older); $150.17 Children (3-9)
2 nights/3 days (advance purchase price) - $171.47 Adults (10 and older); $137.39 Children (3-9)
If you split your stay so that you have one night and two nights you'd have
$252 for three nights total. $618 in tickets associated with the two night stay for a total of $870. That leaves $130 for you to drive and eat on. If you bring food supplies for dinner you might be able to do this...provided you have a fuel efficient vehicle. If you check with these resorts you might be able to do better. I didn't look very hard. Better could mean $84 and a full meal as well as meaning cheaper.
If going for any of these I'd try the
www.dreamsunlimitedtravel.com website...I just found the Best Western had a rate of $69 through them. Aren't they a sponsor of these boards? Give them a call, explain what you want to do and see if they'll work with you.
DTD hotels are as follows:
www.orlandoresorthotel.com (Best Western) 1-800-348-3765
www.courtyardorlando.com (Courtyard) 1-800-321-2211
www.doubletreeguestsuites.com (Doubletree) 1-800-222-8733
www.grosvenorresort.com (Grosvenor) 1-800-624-4109
(Hilton) 1-800-445-8667
www.royalplaza.com (Hotel Royal Plaza...closed due to Hurricane Damage)
www.wyndham.com/PalaceResort/ 1-800-327-2990