We will be first time cruisers in January 2010!!! I am so excited! We are planning to cruise on the 7 night Western Caribbean. As I was going over the itinerary, things to do, etc. I came upon the attire for the cruise. I mistakenly mention to my DH that there is a formal night and semi-formal night.......oops! He is going nutso on this! What are the requirements for Formal and Semi-formal attire? Do we have to rent tuxedos for him and my DS who will be 9?? I thought I saw a blurb about Disney giving us some Tuxedo rental info...... I also told him about the dinner rotation and table seating. Again.....freaked out! Does not like the idea of sitting with strangers every night (what if I don't like them? What if I don't want to sit at that specific table? etc.) I am much more easy going than he is. How can I soothe his anxiety on all of this? He actually said, in the heat of the moment, that we were not going!!! HELP!!