First off, I am sorry that you are disappointed with the direction this thread has taken. Speaking as someone who has been on this message board for over a year, I can say that the advice you have received comes with the best of intentions from people who know what they are talking about. But I do appreciate that you are taking the time to continue the dialogue, even though it is not what you expected and I can imagine is somewhat upsetting to you. I'm truly sorry for that.
So moving forward, I'm not sure what you are looking for, reassurance or honesty. I'm thinking that you can get reassurance from anywhere, so I'm going to go with honesty. Even though that might not be what you really want, I think it might be what is best. But I could be wrong about that. Just know that what I say is in the spirit of having an honest, open dialogue. If, at the end, that's not what you want, then say so and I'll simply post "congratulations" and leave it at that.
First off, please go back and read your first post and now read this post. They look and sound like they were written by two different people. Your first post was manic and frenzied; full of confusion and doubt. Your second post was well written and articulate (although it still contained misunderstandings and inaccuracies). If you go back and reread your first post, I think you can begin to understand why you received the responses that you did.
With all due respect, I still maintain that you do not know enough about DVC to make an informed and conscious decision and I stand by my opinion that you should cancel your deal until you do. I'm not challenging your intelligence or your success in life, I'm simply saying that in this one small area, you don't have enough experience. Evidence to support this statement can be found in some of your quotes below:
We like to go all over the world, but really feel like Disney is a place we would like to call home now that we have a family.
Typically, people who buy DVC are true Disney fans. These are people who have been going for years or go multiple times per year. From the sound of your post, you have been once, yet you are committing yourself to essentially 50 years of future
Disney vacations. My experience has taught me that people with a dearth of experience travelling to Disney who impulse buy DVC based on the assumption that they would like to travel to Disney every year usually end up regretting the purchase. That is one of the reasons why there is such a vibrant resale market.
One of my good friends has travelled the world using her DVC points and that was an important aspect in our decision.
As others will tell you (I'm hoping Dean will jump into this thread as he owns at least four different timeshare systems) DVC is a very poor option for staying anywhere outside of WDW owned resorts. There are many other reputable timeshare companies that can help you travel the world for less money with better options.
When I found this site, I am seeing so many negatives about the DVC and I'm stunned. I even thought I would get so much positive feedback when I posted and instead I am told to back out of my contract.
So there are two responses to this. The first is, if you wanted a positive response, your post should have asked for it. A post along the lines of "we just bought AKV and are excited out of our minds" would have gotten you the response you wanted. But you titled your post "Help!!! Did I make a mistake?" When you do that, you are going to get:
a) help
and
b) answers that will most likely include "yes, you made a mistake...and here's what you can do to fix it"
As far as the negatives of DVC that you're reading about on here, I can see how that would be alarming...at first. Please don't let it bother you. For the most part, we are on this message board because we love Disney and love DVC. But that doesn't mean that we drink the Kool Aid and think that everything they do is great. We are critical, educated consumers who can point out the benefits and drawbacks of this "product" that we love so much.
Just looking for justification that this is THE RIGHT vacation club to join as there are so many others out there.
If that's what you wanted, then you should have asked for that. But you asked for help and advice, not support. You need to be specific on here, or else you might not get what you bargained for.

If you know that you will travel to Disney every year for at least the next 25 years, then this is probably the right vacation club for you. If you can't say that with conviction, it might not be, and I think that's what you were hearing in the earlier replies.
I also didn't think resale was the way to go b/c I read that you can't use your DVC to travel to non disney resorts if you bought on the resale. (?)
This is not true (and this is kind of what I'm talking about when I say that you are not yet familiar enough with the system to have made a purchasing decision). The restrictions on resale points prevent you from using points for
Disney Cruise Line, Adventures by Disney and the Disney Concierge Collection. You may still use resale points for RCI exchanges into other timeshare companies and locations. That being said, these benefits are not guaranteed in the future for either direct or resale points, which is why people will say that you should really only purchase DVC if your goal is to stay at DVC owned properties.
And as I mentioned I would like to travel all over the world on the RCI network using my DVC points. But again people on here are saying that it isn't worth it.
Well, because it's not. First off, the majority of the time you use your DVC points to trade into RCI you are trading down (relative to value) and from what I have read, possibly in quality as well. Furthermore, as a DVC member you only have access to a small fraction of the total number of properties available to RCI in general. (My last calculation had it at about 25% of the properties were available to DVC members). So buying DVC for the purpose of getting RCI exchanges is not a wise allocation of your money.
Isn't that the whole concept behind "banking" points in "the world." (i.e. so you can travel all over).
No. And again, not to be rude, but this is another example of some of the misconceptions that you are holding onto. The terms "banking" and "borrowing" refer to the ability to transfer points from one use year into another. The purpose is to provide some flexibility if you can't make it to Disney in a particular year or if you want to save up your points for a larger vacation.
At this point I feel like your salesperson did you a great disservice. My inference is that he spent most of the time selling the magic and the pixie dust and did not take the time to teach you about the inner workings of the system. Also, keep in mind, that your salesperson is not there to offer opinions. Rather, he is there to provide facts (hopefully honestly) and make a sale. So if you say "I want to use DVC to visit other countries through RCI" he is going to say "sure, you can do that". What he's not going to say is that it is not a wise use of points and has much more limited options than other timeshare companies.
I just want to know why you all love this club ... the negatives on here are really troublesome to me ... i.e. no dining plan perks, no park passes ....etc. Why did you all join and why are so many people so happy. I have been told by so many "this was the best decision I have ever made for my family" ...why????????
In general, it is implied that we love DVC...that's why we own. I'm sorry, but in general you're not going to find the "DVC group hug" thread that you're looking for. Like I said before, the negatives come up during critical conversations of a system that it is assumed we like. We are just trying to talk about ways to make it better. To answer your question of why I personally joined DVC...I bought DVC so that I can stay in upgraded accommodations on property that come with a long term discount vs. other methods of paying for these accommodations (ie renting points or cash reservations). That's it. Why is it such a great decision for my family? Same reason...because it allows us to stay at upgraded accommodations, on property, while realizing a long term cost savings over other options. (As an aside, I am realizing these cost savings mostly because I bought resale).
Thank you for taking the time to help me. I think this site really keyed me in on the confusion of the DVC (when to travel, how to use points etc.) and think I will refer to this site all the time. But I'm not sure why everyone is now telling me to cancel my contract!!!!
We are telling you to cancel your contract because we have seen situations like yours many, many times in the past. And, for the most part, they have not worked out well. The best way to buy DVC is to spend months learning as much as you possibly can, leaving no question unanswered, and then making your purchase. In your case, you made the purchase and are now asking the questions. Getting answers you don't like can cause you stress and problems because you are already an owner. I'm not wishing anything bad to happen, but in cases like yours more times than not the contract ends up on the resale market at about half of what you paid for it and the owner writes it off as an expensive mistake. We are just trying to help you avoid the potential of being in that situation.
I hope this gave more clarity to who I am and why I joined. I will join a timeshare ... but is DVC the right one?
Your post did provide much more clarity on both of these points, so thank you for taking the time to do that. Regardless, my advice has not changed. Cancel your current contract and take the time to do the research. You should be asking "is DVC the right one?"
before you purchase, not after.
I hope you take my words as they are intended, to be positive and helpful. Oftentimes it is difficult to infer tone from a message board post. Please know that my goal is to have a spirited debate about the points you have brought up in the hopes of helping you reach a conclusion. As an attorney I am thinking that you are used to that.

Good luck with whatever you decide.