heartache.

[ohdisco]

what do you do to deal with heartache or relationship ending?

My engagement might be ending tonight.
I, uh, I don't really know what to do.
The one thing that was right in my life is totally horrible.
I feel numb.

 

[PurpleDucky]

Not trying to be nosy, but what happened..?
And I'm really sorry, always here to talk

 

[Sparx]

heartache can only heal with time. Its going to hurt and hurt bad and hard for a long long time. But one day you'll notice that you don't feel as bad as you felt the day before. and so on.

i'm so sorry you're about to go through this.

my pm box is always open if you need a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen.

 

[chisnpeke]

I know that it sucks and nothing that I or anyone else says will truly make you feel better. It just takes time. I know how bad it hurts...it is probably the worst feeling in the world. But it does get better. My ex boyfriend broke up with me on my 18th birthday and I was DEVASTATED. We got back together but about a year later I couldn't deal with him anymore. Anyone who treats you badly and doesn't want to be with you isn't worth YOUR time. Put yourself first hun! I promise it will get better, even if it takes a while.

 

[ohdisco]

Thanks you guys.

He promised me not to do something because when he did it it broke my heart. He's lied about it 6-7 times before.

If I find out tonight he lied about it again (which I'm almost positive he did), that's it.

I know the dumper isn't supposed to be sad, but I still love him...I just can't be treated like this anymore. I'm worth more than that.

 

[LoveGoofy91]

I'm sorry to hear that :[ It's never a good feeling to know someone lied to you, especially someone you care about. Whatever happens, I hope you're happy alone or with someone. If it ends in a break up, a good cry, some fries, and time will help.

 

[ohdisco]

I just keep thinking about what's going to happen to our apartment.
We still owe his parents money for fixing our car, do I just pay that since it is MY car, but we both use it?

three in a half years might be wasted for instant gratification.

 

[LoveGoofy91]

If it's your car, and you own the title, I'd say keep paying them until it's paid and then cut off contact with them if necessary[or you choose to].

I'm really sorry that's happened :[

 

[PurpleDucky]

Thanks you guys.

He promised me not to do something because when he did it it broke my heart. He's lied about it 6-7 times before.

If I find out tonight he lied about it again (which I'm almost positive he did), that's it.

I know the dumper isn't supposed to be sad, but I still love him...I just can't be treated like this anymore. I'm worth more than that.

Yeah I know it's really hard to let someone go you really love. But it's best for you, honesty is a very important quality in relationships

 

[jbcheerchick93]

its gonna be hard, but if you feel like you cant trust him, then its not a healthy relationship.

me too, my pm box is always open

 

[reminisce]

i dont know what to tell you about the car payments. i would talk to his parents about it- ask them what they expect you do to. because both of you share the car, i would also talk to him about at least paying a little, out of fairness

i really hope it doesnt have to come to a break up, but anyways. good luck, pm if you need to. of course, dont forget to update this thread, i want to see how this goes down