Take at least 15 minutes every day to focus on myself - whether that's exercise time, reading, watching TV, or just lying in bed thinking about nothing. After last month, I need to start focusing on taking time for myself and not letting other people dictate my schedule
Love this part of your plan Sarah - I know I definitely don't do enough of this either.
We are going to start out the month with an easy one! If you haven't already, introduce yourself! What is your goal this month? Weight loss? Exercise accomplished? General sense of well being found? Let's talk about any and all of your goals! What to do you to be able to say "I did that" about 31 days from now? What is your plan to make those goals happen? Specifics welcome! How are you going to track your percentage of goal complete each week? Finally, what can we do to help you achieve your goals?
Hi everyone,
I'm Samantha and I'm from the land Down Under - yes I join you guys from Australia for those that don't know me yet. I am 43 and a solo mum to 3 kids a 15 year old boy and 12 year old twins (boy and girl) - I love my boys but can I just say I am soooo glad I ended up with a girl to enjoy all of the Disney Princesses with me lol. Ok a little summary I love food always have, especially the bad food, as a kid, teen and in my early 20s I was skinny and could eat whatever I wanted pretty much. After having kids I had some trouble losing the baby weight, then went through a relationship breakdown that I didn't want and found myself raising my 3 kids all alone. I started eating yummy things to feel better and the weight just piled on. Over the last 10 years I have gone up and down - sometimes stress works for me and I lose but mostly I think combined with getting older now I just seem to keep piling it on. I am unhappy with my size, how it makes me look and how I have to fight my way into clothes. I have no energy and some days just doing anything can be hard work.
I just weighed in this morning I am at 91.2 kg or about 201 pounds - this puts me just over and into the obese category on the BMI. Obese never a word I thought would be used to describe me
. I have having trouble trying to decide on a goal for the month. But I think I am going to focus on my eating. So I think that means by goal needs to be around calorie intake. I will aim to stay within the MFP calculated calorie goal of 1700 for 5 days per week - this was for an initial weight loss goal of .5Kg per week which is about 1.1 pounds. Now I really haven't had much luck with losing much of anything yet in the 4 months I have been joining you - I lost a tiny bit but it went back on. This is despite the fact that I am moving more than I have in a really long time - so obviously what I am inputting needs improvement.
You guys already help so much from the inspiration of those further along in the journey to just being able to share with like minded friends who are understanding, encouraging and non-judgemental when we slip.
On the positive side there are no family birthdays or big celebrations this month to derail me.
On the challenging side:
I got sick on Saturday - my daughter bought it home from school camp - sore throat, sore sinuses, headaches, feeling blaaah.
Keeping moving - it is starting to get colder here as we head into winter - mind you our winters are mild compared to some of yours but this may mean my paddling will get put on hold at some point.
Time management and planning - I struggle with this.
My plan:
To get better with meal planning.
I have a new little weekly whiteboard to keep in the kitchen so we all know that the dinner/breakfast options are for each day.
Doing some weekend pre-cooking where possible - to help with the time management.
Track, track, track my eating using MFP and Supertracker.
Bonus QOTD - What is your earliest Disney memory?
The music, Tinkerbelle and the Castle from Sunday night movie credits as a kid. I new
Disneyland was out there and I knew about the Mickey Mouse Club - my parents had watched that when they were younger my Dad was an Annette Funicello fan
I Always remember as a kid saying I wanted to do to Disneyland - this was impossible from my parents point of view back then. Wasn't affordable for them and my Mum hates flying. It was always still my goal though. I went to Disneyland for the first time in 1997 when in my early 20s and wow just wow. Then so many years later took my kids on a much needed break and it really worked its magic on me and the kids me especially I underwent a lot of healing emotionally on that 3 week trip to so SoCal. We just wish we were closer or could afford to visit more often
And I am happy to report that I am nearly 10 pounds lighter now than I was when this picture was taken!
This is a great pic of you and your Aunty! I think you look good in this pic but great work for losing another 10 pounds since then
I was a super skinny kid, teenager, and 20-something
Me too - I know we all struggle with our weight journeys no matter if we started out skinny or overweight - but for me I just didn't build any skills around managing this better because I didn't have to
I am Stephanie. I am 36. After I started my current job 8 years ago I started gaining weight. I went from working in a daycare to a desk job. I am hoping to get back down to 120 pounds.
Desk jobs always take a toll!
am happy to report that my scheduled long run for today worked out wonderfully! Last week I was running through a snow storm, today the weather was perfect for running. 60 degrees and overcast. Wonderful!
So glad to hear you had a great run
My name is Marie, I'm 27. I need to lose weight, but I think I'm gonna base my goal on the amount of exercise I do versus the amount of pounds I lose, because I feel like my biggest challenge is to stick to a routine, which I always have a hard time doing. I don't think I can count the amount of times I've signed up for a gym and stopped going after two months, even with them taking the money out of my account for the whole 12 months still.
Sticking to routine is part of my problem too - I have given up on joining gyms.
But even though I've been walking a lot more than I used to since we moved here, it hasn't affected my weight at all.
This is so frustrating isn't it? Since moving more in the last few months I also haven't seen any effect on the scales.