heading to Ireland for 3 months - any advice/tips?

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Hi :shamrock: So my husband was asked to go over to a company office in Galway for 3 months, they'll pay airfare/housing/car for us. We are so excited for this great opportunity, but I'm a little nervous as our boys will be 4 and 1 and it's pretty far! and we won't know anyone. :scared:We'll be there July, Aug, Sept.
So, any tips about the country/area are more than welcome. What are the must/sees. I'm guessing as long as we can get the driving down, we'll be exploring on weekends. I have ancestors from Malin Head Donegul, so VERY excited to head up that way. I don't even know where to begin to plan!
 
The people in Ireland are so nice and helpful! You will have a great time!
 
That is so exciting!

I have only done Ireland for a week as a tourist
But I really enjoyed

Killarney (tourist town with a wonderful national park and house to tour)

Dublin-
St Stevens Green (park)
Dublina (Viking museum for kids)
I heard the zoo was good there too -but we didn't do that

Inch Beach

Rock of Cashel

Cliffs of Moher
 
My experience living in foreign countries is that you have the most success when you give yourself completely to the experience and not constantly make it seem like home. Certainly, bring some things that remind you of home and provide comfort (a special food, pictures, whatever) but once you get to Ireland, do like the locals. Even if you think the way we do things in the United States is better. So, if the tradition is NOT for Sunday brunch but for Sunday Roast at the Pub, do it. Learn to watch local sports and shop in local markets (even if they are small and you have to shop multiple times a week). Cook the local food, etc.

Ireland is a great first place to start an expat life....they speak English! Even if they use different words.

Have a wonderful adventure!
 

How wonderful! I would do that in a heartbeat.

You are at an advantage going there as most people speak English.

My advice? Do quite a bit of research on the area and do/visit EVERYTHING you can while there. I have regrets of not doing things, even the small things, while living overseas. It isn't always opportune to go back and do them!

Dawn
 
No advice but DANG I'm jealous!

Actually I do have advice, there is a UK board here on the DIS, maybe you could post your question there (Ireland isn't part of the UK of course but I'm sure plenty of people on the board have been there)? I'm not sure how that board is about non-Disney threads but it can't hurt to lurk a bit.
 
Galway is a beautiful area of Ireland and you will be there at a wonderful time of year with local festivals, the Galway Arts festival as well as the Galway races. My husband is from Tralee, Co. Kerry and we go back to visit quite often so feel free to contact me with any questions. The Ring of Kerry is also a beautiful trip and head to the Tralee for the Rose of Tralee festival, also a great festival.
 
I'm jealous too. I would be so excited if I had this opportunity.

Definitely get out and see things. You'll be nice and close to much of the rest of Europe too so you might even have the chance to explore other places.
 
OP - I am so jealous! As we were in the airport in Shannon waiting to board our plane back to the States I turned to DH and said, "I don't want to go home. I want to live here." Even though he had no desire to go to Ireland to begin with, he said to me, "I know. It is amazing here." The people we encountered all along our travels were so charming, welcoming & down to earth. You'll have a great time!

I have only done Ireland for a week as a tourist
But I really enjoyed

Killarney (tourist town with a wonderful national park and house to tour)

When we visited Ireland, we made Killarney our homebase for the few days we were there. It is a great little town and easy driving distance to many beautiful places - Ring of Kerry, Kinsale & Blarney Castle. We loved driving around the country-side. It was so peaceful!

The Ring of Kerry is also a beautiful trip

...and don't forget to head off of the Ring of Kerry & explore the Skellig Ring...such a beautiful (& usually quiet) ride!
 
You will be there in high tourist season, tourists are all over the West that time of year. That will mean a lot of traffic and higher prices. On the upside, however, everything in the West will be open, which is not the case in the winter and late fall. In early August you'll actually get to go to beaches and have it be warm.

Realize that petrol (gasoline) is approximately 3X more expensive than in the US; if you are planning on touring around a lot in summer you'll need to budget for that; at today's exchange rate, filling the tank of what an American would consider a compact car (~12 gallon tank) will cost over $100. Also, if you cannot drive a stick shift then you will need to negotiate a much higher car allowance; automatics are NOT the norm in Ireland. When planning excursions in summer, assume that the distances will take 3X as long to cover as they would in the US; there are not a lot of motorway miles in the west, so you will be driving on small country roads with a lot of traffic.

The most important everyday thing that I can tell you is that there is a significant difference between US home plumbing and Irish home plumbing -- they have plumbing, of course, but the fixtures operate differently. Water heaters are normally NOT turned on 24/7 -- they are kept on timers that heat the water only when you will expect to need to use it. If you unexpectedly need hot water at a different time of day, you'll need to turn the water heater on and wait a while first. Home toilets are also designed differently from those in the US and tend to fill more slowly; it is normally necessary to wait about 20 minutes between flushes in order to avoid clogging the pipes. Washing machines operate differently as well; be sure to ask your landlord how to use your machine and what kind of detergent to use for what. (Not all rentals have washing machines; negotiate to get a washing machine in your flat if you don't want to have to visit a laundrette with your children in tow.)

Regarding children's favorite foods: if your children really like boxed mac n' cheese, applesauce or peanut butter, plan to have those shipped to you from home or bring them in your baggage, because they are hard to find and expensive there. Mac n' cheese in particular is different; Irish M&C is canned, and absolutely awful. (My family have always found that having some familiar foods at hand really eases the cultural transition for small children.) Most of the other kid favorites are easy to find, just not those three.

My family home in Ireland is rather near Malin as the crow flies. Malin is quite remote; expect it to take forever to get there. (Tour buses seldom go up there because of how narrow the roads are; you'll need to drive yourself.) If you will need to look at genealogical sources, the Donegal County Library in Letterkenny will be the place to go. Letterkenny is approx. 90 minutes away from Malin, but you will pass through it on your way up from Galway City. (Letterkenny is also where the nearest large supermarket is; there is a Tesco there, so if you decide to rent a self-catering lodging near Malin you'll want to stop there for groceries.)

Oh, and bring ice trays.
 
wow, thanks everyone :) I am so excited, but nervous. It will be a huge help that they speak English though!
NotUrsula, thanks for all the great tips! I knew gas was more expensive, but not that much! We had heard about automatic cars being hard to get, so we already brought that up. Neither one of us can drive standard so hopefully we will be able to get one. (I read on a travel site that rental places have very few and run out). Also that's interesting about the plumbing as well. See, these are the things you'd never know unless someone tells you!
We will definitely be packing mac & cheese and peanut butter then! My older son is SO picky, he might have a bit of a hard time adjusting (but maybe he'll finally try NEW foods! :)) I am also REALLY hoping to get a washing machine. Do they not have dryers over there?
I didn't know it might be warm enough to swim at all, that would be great as that's one thing I will miss a lot! We are from Mass, so normally would have lots of beach time.
We googlemapped Malin Head and saw that it's at the tip top of Ireland. We're guessing it's around a 5-6 hour drive, does that seem right? Thank you so much for the tip about the library in Letterkenny. There are a few birth certificates I would LOVE to get for my mom if I can.
Does anyone know how the public transportation is in Galway? I'm sure I will have a million questions!
 
We went to Ireland two years ago for our anniversary. We mainly stayed in Dublin and had such a great time. The people are very friendly. The city was really clean. We did a lot of exploring on our own but I did a TON of research before we went. It was a childhood dream to go there and I wasn't disappointed.

We did do a tour of the countryside, it was so beautiful!
 
Puck Fair in Killorglin, Co. Kerry :-) 3 days in August.

I went in May of 2006 to Dublin and then across to Killorglin. I loved it.
Public transportation is excellent. Look in to Ryan Air for cheap flights. If you can go to other countries while you are there. It's fantastic.
I left a little piece of myself in Ireland and can't wait to go back.
 
Ryan Air is a great tip! We lived in Italy for 3 years and used them often. We were able to traveled to London, Rome, Germany and several other place. They are very cheap!
 
You are so lucky for a trip of a lifetime.:thumbsup2
I myself and dd15 are headed to Ireland for 2 weeks this July 26- Aug 9. (also a 4 nite trip to Germany included at the end of our visit) I'm 100 percent Irish and my father is from Ventry, Dingle ,Co. Kerry Ireland.He grew up in a village of 13 families and some of my relatives are still there in the same village where was born.
So I'm going back to visit all my Aunts ,Uncles and Cousins...can't wait...just planned my trip during February...it's been 30 yrs (1982) since my last visit...but I remember it like it was yesterday...although many things have changed !!!
My advice is travel to some of the tourist spots that other Americans would go to like: The Blarney Stone, Jaunting Carts in Killarney,Local pubs with Tradional Irish Music, maybe The Bunratty Casle for Dinner/show near Shannon airport.

But like others have posted, immerse yourself in the regular "old -fashioned Ireland". When traveling you must stay in B&B's...the hosts will be very inviting and welcoming into their own home. They'll also tell you what to see and do in that given area and will provide you with a wonderful Irish Breakfast each morning you are there. If you stay in a B&B on a working farm ...they'll usually show you around the barn and farm...maybe you'll even get to see some cows getting milked !
My entire family is from the Dingle, Co. Kerry area...one the most beautiful parts of Ireland and they speak Gaelic there as well. Don't miss the drive to "Slea Head" you'll never forget the views. www.irelandtravelpictures.net


Also don't miss Cliffs of Moher...up by Shannon Airport area.

Take the time to stop in the little towns like Tralee like a poster said...that's how you'll get to see the real Ireland and the meet the local Irish too !
I have at least 15 cousins over there right now and in visiting them and their children my dd and myself will get a real taste for the people and their way of life !
I also would go to www.TripAdvisor.com and seach on their "travel forums for Ireland"...that's what I've been doing to check out different towns and B&B's.

Have a wonderful time !:thumbsup2
 
All I can tell you is you are not going to want to come back. I've been there 3 times, trips ranging from 7 to 10 days. I hate leaving there. It's been 12 years since my last trip and I still miss it, yearn for it and wish I was there. You are going to have an amazing time. The Irish people are amazing, you'll have no problems meeting people.
 
wow, thanks everyone :) I am so excited, but nervous. It will be a huge help that they speak English though!
NotUrsula, thanks for all the great tips! I knew gas was more expensive, but not that much! We had heard about automatic cars being hard to get, so we already brought that up. Neither one of us can drive standard so hopefully we will be able to get one. (I read on a travel site that rental places have very few and run out). Also that's interesting about the plumbing as well. See, these are the things you'd never know unless someone tells you!
We will definitely be packing mac & cheese and peanut butter then! My older son is SO picky, he might have a bit of a hard time adjusting (but maybe he'll finally try NEW foods! :)) I am also REALLY hoping to get a washing machine. Do they not have dryers over there?

Dryers exist (or rather, most of the time it is a washer/dryer in one machine, hard for an American to imagine), but electricity is expensive in Ireland, and so most landlords do not put the combo units into rental properties because it would really drive up the electric bill. Very few people would use one in the summertime even if they had one; it's considered a serious waste of electricity unless it's very damp out.

I didn't know it might be warm enough to swim at all, that would be great as that's one thing I will miss a lot! We are from Mass, so normally would have lots of beach time.

Oh, I didn't say that it would be warm enough to swim, only that the AIR temperature would be warm. Since you're Yankees you might feel up to swimming, but that's the North Sea; it's not exactly warm at any time of year. However, my dad grew up in a Donegal fishing village and he and his brothers spent hours in the water every day in summer; it is all in what you are used to. It will be much more pleasant for swimming off the beaches down south, especially around Cork, but it might not be really cold near Galway; I've never tried to swim in that area so I couldn't say. (FYI, Note that the fishing and diving is GREAT off Malin; there are several major wrecks just off the coast and they are catching large tuna again there now. Surfing is also hugely popular in Donegal, but most folks wear wetsuits to do that.)

We googlemapped Malin Head and saw that it's at the tip top of Ireland. We're guessing it's around a 5-6 hour drive, does that seem right? Thank you so much for the tip about the library in Letterkenny. There are a few birth certificates I would LOVE to get for my mom if I can.

Probably more like eight hours in summertime, because of the tourist traffic near the coasts; the stretch of the N15 between Sligo and Donegal Town can be particularly slow; it runs along the beaches in spots and moves at a crawl there.

If you need birth certificates and you know the year and place of birth and the names of the parents, you are better off writing to the Registry Office in Dublin for them. What the Library mostly has are census records, burial records, newspapers and such, and LOTS of old photographs. The churches also have copies of birth and marriage records, but in that part of the world you always run the risk of finding that the church records have burned at some time in the past. If I were you I'd start with writing to the local church in Malin now with what information you have. If the family was RC, the parish is Cloncha http://www.derrydiocese.org/malin.asp (I'm afraid I don't know the name of the local Church of Ireland parish.)

One other thing about the area around Malin; it is near the Border and even today remains the sort of place where politics are important, and where people can generally guess your religious affiliation just by your family name. Most people won't be overtly partisan one way or the other, but you probably will encounter curiousity, and you absolutely will be asked your opinions on American political issues when you chat with people in pubs there; they are informed about US policy and they tend to love to talk politics with Americans.

Does anyone know how the public transportation is in Galway?
Quite good; there is good bus service all over Ireland, though in rural areas it is very slow because it stops in every tiny town. Taxi's are also available in almost every village, though more and more people are buying their own cars now even though it is so expensive to do. My aunt still lives in the remote village that she was born in; she never learned to drive, but she goes anywhere and everywhere that she needs to go by bus. (Of course she also walks the three miles round trip to Mass every day at age 86, but that's an Irish countrywoman for you.)

Iarnrod's passenger rail service does not run in the North West north of Sligo, but it does run between Dublin and Galway, and from Galway down via Ennis to Cork City.
 
Meg&Minnie, that sounds fantastic to see your relatives! I am pretty sure I still have some cousins left where we are from, wouldn't that be something to meet them!!
I would love to stay at a B&B, and really get teh feel of life over there, but do they mind small children? I always thought that was something more for adults, but my 4 year old would LOVE to stay on a farm!
Sorry if this is a dumb question, but without dryers, do people just line dry clothes? what if it rains?(which I have read it does A LOT).
Funny I misunderstood about teh swimming. Maybe we'll get lucky ;)
Can anyone recommend a good way to find a hotel/B&B while we are over there? Do we need to book ahead of time? Just wondering as we may not be able to plan TOO far in advance exactly when we will get to each place. Also I will definitely check out Ryan Air, thanks! We are hoping to go to London halfway through our stay and then Paris for a few days at teh end. We may never get back and REALLY want to visit them! Any recommendations for hotels at either place also welcome! :)
Also, is there like a shuttle sevice or something that could take us from the airport to our house so we don't literally have to learmn to drive right off the plane! Would love to be able to pick up the rental in Galway if that's possible. I'm just really nervous about the driving and would rather take baby steps. haha. :)
Really thank you everyone for the tips though, I appreciate it!!!
 
No matter which airport you arrive via, there will be some sort of option to take a bus or train, or even hire a car and driver to take you to Galway. If you go in via Dublin you can take a cab to the train and take Iarnrod, or get a bus from either Shannon or Knock. (Few Americans know about Knock unless they live in very ethnic Irish-American communities: until recently Knock specialized only in pilgrimage charters and interrment services. It's a tiny airport that is very easy to manage, and it is essentially in the middle of nowhere, so the driving around it is easier as well.) You will easily be able to arrange to claim your car in Galway City. (A note about place names; the name of the city is officially just Galway, but you'll find that when speaking of towns and cities that have the same name as the county they are in, most locals will tack on the extra word to make it clear which they are speaking of.)

Yes, people hang clothing to dry, and most people make provision for being able to dry clothes inside the house in inclement weather.

Irish B&B's are a lot different than American ones; they mostly are just people's homes that have had a few extra bedrooms added on. The hostess and her family are likely to welcome your children with open arms, but whether the other guests do is another matter. We have family who run B&B's, but we don't take the children there when they are very small because of the other guests and the wear and tear on the house; travelers expect B&B's to be tidy, and that's hard to maintain with toddlers running about. (There is also the issue of childproofing, or rather, the lack of it. I find that with toddlers at a B&B you are forever having to hover over them to keep them from getting into things that they shouldn't touch.)

With a toddler I tend to prefer self-catering accomodations unless the place is a so-called "purpose-built" B&B, which will normally have separate en suite lock-off quarters for guests with only a shared dining area. The other thing that you need to be aware of with B&B's is that they charge per-person, so sometimes with a family a self-catering space will turn out to be more cost-effective -- you just have to do the math.

Also, even with a self-catering cottage your child is likely to be able to interact with farm animals at least a bit, especially in Donegal. Sheep are EVERYWHERE, and where there are sheep there are always sheepdogs. I have a lovely set of photos taken on a beach near a cottage where we like to stay; they show my DS at age 4 romping with the owner's neighbor's border collie, Lucy, who just wandered over and took a liking to him. They played fetch on the beach for hours when she wasn't needed to run the sheep. Some working farms do offer accomodation, but with a toddler in tow a farm might make you quite nervous -- working farms are fairly dangerous places, and farm families tend to take a lot of the risky things for granted. (I'll never forget the look of fear on DH's face when a family friend of mine handed our then-2yo a full-sized pitchfork and invited him to feed the cows. Frankly, knowing DS as I do, I was a wee bit more concerned for the poor cows, but nothing terrible happened.)
 
ok, that's sort of what I expected about a B&B. We'll try and stick with something more hotel-ish. :) But hopefully we will get to visit a real farm and I'll be sure to keep a close eye. He'd be more than happy to help out with a pitchfork, while I'd be having a heart attack!
I am pretty sure we;ll be flying into Shannon, so that's good we can hopefully arrange transport from there.
 





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