I was thinking of changing some of our ressies, if I cant get them, but which show do you reccommend, it will just be me and my husband for our anniversary dinner.
Both are wonderful shows. I think the luau leans a little bit more toward the romantic side. However, both shows do a little something to acknowledge anniversaries. I think at HDDR they will get all of the anniversary couples up and let them dance to "Let me call you sweetheart". I don't remember exactly what they did at the Luau but they also did something special for couples celebrating an anniversary.
For your anniversary, I suggest the luau. We've been to both and the luau is more romantic than a country show. We also loved the HDDR, but for an anniversary show do the luau.
I prefer Hoop Dee Do over the Luau myself. The food and show are awesome! I personally don't find either of them romantic. If you want that, go to Narcoossee's or California Grill.