Mare, uh I thought you were flying back on Thanksgiving Day....ok..I would go with Miguel's suggestions of 3 pm. That is during rush hr type traffic so he is being sensible.
Like Kristin said, the Santas start the Fri after Thanksigivng.
Candlelight Processional is better in the dark from what I have read. It makes more of an impact.
You will have to wait in a MEGA HUGE line if you don't book the package ...you will have to wait in a HUGE line if you do. I have not had the desire to wait in the lines I have seen so we've not yet done it. I don't know...it might be stressful with your little guys. It's 45 min long. I thought it would be stressful with Jojo haha....
You will have luck with low crowds for a day or two....they start piling in Tues night and tons on Wednesday....peeps don't leave until Sunday. Maybe you will have luck Sunday?? It's tough to say. Honestly our most uncrowded times have been late in the eves at MK. We stay til close but you can't do that with your little ones. If you're an early bird you will most likely have luck too though!

We have not gone park crazy on our holiday visits...mmostly about the special holiday stuff and having fun outside the parks. It's a totally different type of trip.
BUMMER...I loved the characters at LTT!!!!!! That sucks.

Garden Grille was not a favorite, but LTT WAS!!! I AM MAD.
Kelly....omg..I am so confused. But the just of it is that guests can book dining online?????
OMG!!! THAT AMERICAN GIRL MOVIE WAS SO GOOD!!!!!! IT WAS WONDERFUL!!!!! Highly recommend!!!! WE ALL LOVED IT!!!!!!!!!!! It kicks Wall E's BUTT out of the atmosphere.:rotfl:
Chan