Hey, all.
Mandy!! OMG...I feel terrible for you.

I really hope he settled in and is having fun. You never know...he might be. You are doing the best thing for him. Just remember that. If he is having a difficult time now, it might just take a few days. He will be fine and fit in soon. Give it time. Remember why you're trying this. I hope your dad continues on his upward swing.

HANG IN THERE!!!!
When will you guys get to take that weekend in WDW? You need something to look forward to.
Chan
Thanks so much everyone!
I think it has been hard on the kids for me taking off so much to see my dad. I got home yesterday afternoon and we ran around and rushed here and there and then pretty much got home to have them in bed less than a hour later. We have not spent much family time together so DH and I decided to make that a priority. This is a big change for DS and me being gone has probably not helped.
We are going to WDW for the day this weekend! So that will be fun!
Chan, I am so gonna work on that, esp now!

I held it together to check out at the school office then called DH and broke down in the car. As soon as he answered I began blubbering and at some point just busted out and I said "I am so sad I had to go to Gainesville and we could not go to Disney!" I have been checking on the October room only special that I found a great rate several weeks ago at the ASMo for like $70, but looks like there are none avail at that rate. DH melted when he heard me blubbering, and I don't get to emotional these days. Karen wants us to use her timeshare but DH said staying at the ASMo would be fun for the kids, especially since DS LOVES Toy Story ( so do I!) and would get a kick out if seeing the huge BUZZ and all the army men that are on the top of the buildings, but I am hoping to stay at the timeshare. I don't want to spent $$$ on a room if we can get one for free.
You have no idea how much money I have spent in gas and food going back and forth to see my dad! My sister has a hummer and I have paid for half of the gas every time we go!

I am the accountant of the family and if it were left to DH would would be living in our car, that is why he has NO atm card and gets an allowance! He has no idea how tight if a ship I run and maximize every cent!

There is no way I am touching our emergency fund with what is going on these days with the economy

With the major cost of living increases we have had to cut back so I don't have to cut down our savings contribution. We found out last week our insurance is going up $45 a pay check in JAN! That is almost a 100 a month! I just think it is so important to not blow money if we don't have to and it makes it REALLY hard to stay over night since we are only 45 min from the parks, you know?
We are going for the day this weekend! So that will be fun!
BTW, did I mention I was asked to teach a money management course at our church on Wednesdays nights? LOL! I was like ME?

We are very close to our pastor and he knows I have helped a few family's who came to me to ask how we did it on 1 income with 4 kids (including his son and DIL that we are BF's with) by going over some things I learned from a course I took several years ago. I helped them make the transition from 2 incomes to 1 so they moms could be SAHM's. NOW he wants me to teach the course

I used the churchy answer of "i'll pray about it and get back to you"

I want to help others but I would feel awkward teaching a class like that being so young. The good thing is is it is video based and I would lead the discussion time.
OMGosh, OK that was the world longest post!

Can you tell I am trying to keep ,y mind off of DS? 2 hours and 20 more min!
