KonaKaiTom
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GrannyMinnie == I am with you. My mom turned 91 Christmas day -- up until last year she was relatively healthy other than severe arthritis in her spine. Over the past year dimentia became an issue, and the aide I had living with me to take care of mom felt she needed more than she could provide. We tried hiring a "2nd shift" aide so that the full time aide could get a good night sleep and that completely threw mom off her game. She ended up refusing to sleep in bed, and decided sitting upright in her "boost" chair was the way to go.
After a couple of months of this she developed cellulitis in her legs as the fluid never drained out of them as she was never flat on her back. So, the conclusion of the long story -- we didn't have to make the choice of putting her into a nursing home - the hospital where she spent 10 days for wound care related to her cellulitis made the decision for us.
So, I stop by (since it is on the way home from work) 2-3 nights a week - its tough watching someone that used to be so sharp decline -- and honestly, I find the moments of clarity almost harder to deal with. At least she does still have Italian mother guilt and throws that at me and my sister every day. But as my sister reminds me every day "It is what it is."
I hope your mom is comfortable and I'm sending you lots of sympathy and respect.
Tom
After a couple of months of this she developed cellulitis in her legs as the fluid never drained out of them as she was never flat on her back. So, the conclusion of the long story -- we didn't have to make the choice of putting her into a nursing home - the hospital where she spent 10 days for wound care related to her cellulitis made the decision for us.
So, I stop by (since it is on the way home from work) 2-3 nights a week - its tough watching someone that used to be so sharp decline -- and honestly, I find the moments of clarity almost harder to deal with. At least she does still have Italian mother guilt and throws that at me and my sister every day. But as my sister reminds me every day "It is what it is."
I hope your mom is comfortable and I'm sending you lots of sympathy and respect.
Tom
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Hmmm, to whom might you be referring?! I have said photos on the first page, or maybe this go 'round I posted a link to them. BRB.







hugs to you


Any chance the forecast can change in three days?!
. And I agree...that one is very peaceful.


You rock! I am pleasantly surprised how large the lockers are. I could not tell from the photo for sure....do you need to bring your own lock or is it one of those put in a quarter to release the key types or ??? Also--is it only one shower stall? And is the soap dispenser on the wall filled with soap and a shampoo/conditioner or should I pack a few from the room in my day bag? Very nice that there are also hair dryers there as well! I am sure our car service driver will appreciate the extra time we spend cleaning up in the showers before getting in his car.....