I think it depends on how the first relationship ended. Of course, we women tend to hold resentment if things turned out wrong etc.
Long story short, split up with X back in 99 for 18 months, during that time, dated a guy and fell head over heals, unfortunatly he wasnt "into me" the way i was him. Now, 6 years later, he's back in my life, but this time, its me thats not "into him" like he is me. Karma baby!
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