disneylizzy
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Can I just brag on DS20 a little? We are not rich by any stretch, so he spends his summers working to help with his tuition. Freshman year he worked for our town Dept. of Public Works 35 hours/week til about 3:30 pm, then 4 nights a week he would eat an early supper and pump gas til 10:00 pm and he also worked at least one weekend day (10 hours) pumping gas.
Last summer he got a job in his field, surveying, where they routinely worked late. He still spent one day a weekend pumping gas.
I think if you can instill a good work ethic in your child, so much else follows from that. A good work ethic means that you can put other's needs before your own wants. A good work ethic means responsibility, delayed gratification (how often do you see that!), and perseverance. You can't be a selfish person with a good work ethic.
Kids who have never had to wait for their latest "want" grow up not knowing or understanding that the world does not owe them a living.
Last summer he got a job in his field, surveying, where they routinely worked late. He still spent one day a weekend pumping gas.
I think if you can instill a good work ethic in your child, so much else follows from that. A good work ethic means that you can put other's needs before your own wants. A good work ethic means responsibility, delayed gratification (how often do you see that!), and perseverance. You can't be a selfish person with a good work ethic.
Kids who have never had to wait for their latest "want" grow up not knowing or understanding that the world does not owe them a living.

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